If you read my last blog you would know that I am doubtful about men liking big women. Well, when I first "joined" this site, I couldn't become a member (Gold) and at the moment still can't. I am the only one working in the house right now and I help out some of my son's friends, so no extra money until my son gets back to work. We, are working on that one.There was one member I was really interested in but, his profile disappeared. He e-mailed me and I couldn't answer. Well, if you are still out there anywhere(I checked and can't find profile)will you contact me again. I was extremely interested. Member was kbtddc, from Florida. If, you are out there and don't want to talk, have a great Christmas and I hope you find someone to spend Chritmas with this year.Be blessed.
Well, I would think if you are a member of this site, you must like large women. I have my doubts about this subject. I, myself do not like being big and hope to do something about it this next year. I don't feel good about myself. I use to look great, I was still not "thin" but, a really good size 12-14. I miss looking like that. The difference in how people treat you is totally amazing.Even though, I am big, I am still (or so I am told) a very pretty woman. If men like a large women, where are they??? I have a good personality and sense of humor. I like to have fun. I use to have guys tripping over themselves, now I get ignored most of the time. Makes me sad,that's all.
I think a desire to have or not have children is something that should be discussed up front. If you are unable to have children, but still want children that is important. If you are unable to have children but don't want children then I don't think you have to disclose you are unable. I think it is sufficient to say you don't want them.
The other issues used as examples I don't hink need to be disclosed right away. I think if you date for a little bit and decide to date exclusively that is when it is time to discuss these items. BEFORE you agree to be exclusive.
I've only been with one partner, so this have never been an issue with me; however I'm a real emotional masochist so I asked Jamie about all of his prior partnerships - in detail.
I wish now, that I didn't know the things I know. A lot of the times I asked because- during times when we were separated - I always knew if and when he was with other girls. (its a horrible intuitive gift that part of me wishes I didn't have)
My weird twisted mind had to know if they were slimmer, prettier, sexier, better in bed than I was.
All of them where always slimmer, almost always prettier, but he always told me I was the best in bed LOL
Over time I learned to let go of all the past hiccups but it was hard. I wish I had let "what happened in Vegas, stay in Vegas"
If you had only one day left on this Earth what would you want to say or do?
I would make sure that I spoke to or saw everyone that I care about and love. Love them more than I ever have and tell them anything and everything I never had the courage or occasion to say. How I feel, what they mean to me. Love,laugh,play,dance,eat whatever I want to,try and get in some of the things I always wanted to do, cry but, never say good-bye, only see you at the crossroads.
Sing like no one is listening,
Dance like no one is watching, and Love like you have never been hurt before.