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Posted on Thu, Sep 06, 2007 07:32

Yes Jan I see what you mean , but then it seems to be a case of finding any one that would really want to meet me , and who I want to be with in return . I always find that most of the profiles of Women state that the sort of Man that they are wanting is quite different to me. (i.e most women seem to be looking for Men that are Tall, Dark and Handsome , while I`m 5ft,7in. ,and rather Ordinary ) So I haven`t a lot of Chance . Of course the could someone out there but I wish I had a Clue who she was and where she was . Bless you Peter (Petersh55)


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Posted on Wed, Sep 05, 2007 03:54

Hmm , Why would I really want to find someone else ? , Would it really be worth my while ? and Is there really anyone out there that I can really and truely make happy ?. Now those are the burning questions . I suppose that my answer to the first Question is I would like to make someone else really happy for the next 40-50 yrs. The answer to second is I don`t think so and my response to the third is If there is really someone out there that meets the criteria why have they not been falling over themselves to get in touch with me?. Think about it . Bless you all Petersh55


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Posted on Mon, Sep 03, 2007 17:04

I agree with Legal, I think it would help if you added informatin about you and who you want to your profile. And a photo. I know I don't respond to profiles without photos and I think other women might be the same.


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Posted on Mon, Sep 03, 2007 16:37

I know what you mean Peter. There is a woman like that out there for you. Some of us may be more shy than others but we're out here. Also, don't settle for someone because you think she's the closest you'll get. That can only lead to heartache. Relax and have faith, you'll find her when the time is right. You might also want to consider filling your profile out a little. You can keep it short and simple and sweet without a lot of trouble. We'll be happy to help. :) Take care.


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Posted on Fri, Aug 31, 2007 23:50

I know what you mean peter. I've passed up many a good guy during my 'fortune' hunting...to my own chagrin. I've learned to find the hidden treasures and believe me it was a hard lesson.


In your rocking-chair, by your window dreaming, shall you long, alone. In your rocking-chair, by your window, shall you dream such happiness as you may never feel. –Theodore Dreiser

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Posted on Fri, Aug 31, 2007 18:00

damn I would love to have a fella want ot just pamper me... can't imagine turning down such...


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Posted on Thu, Aug 30, 2007 07:01

You have to have faith Darling! To keep saying that it won't happen will bring it into being. And I don't know of too many women who wouldn't appreciate a man pampering them in such a wonderful manner. Confidence is very attractive to most women, believe in yourself, think positive and it will happen!


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Posted on Thu, Aug 30, 2007 04:40

Hi to you all and Thank you all for your Lovely comments , I really do appreciate all your kind sentiments . I must say that I wasn`t being defeatist or downhearted with my comments ,but trying to use my comments to make a point . The Point that I was trying to make was that everyone has Dream Partners that they Look for , while passing over everyone else ,which is fine if you can manage to find that Dream Partner , but how often have you seen Blogs by Women bemoaning the fact that the only Men that they seem to attract use and abuse them ? The reason could be that their expections are too high and unrealistic . I think sometimes that you need to look in front of you sometimes to find what you really want rather than being too fussy , Don`t You? Bless You Petersh55


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Posted on Mon, Aug 27, 2007 19:16

Peter, don't be so certain no woman wants to hear that you'd like to do those things to her... I know I am not the only woman on the planet that loves a good toe s*cking. lol ;-) don't lose heart... the day you stop wishing for her to pop out of thin air, she will walk around the corner!


In your rocking-chair, by your window dreaming, shall you long, alone. In your rocking-chair, by your window, shall you dream such happiness as you may never feel. –Theodore Dreiser

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Posted on Mon, Aug 27, 2007 16:49

Peter, have you never heard of the law of attraction? If you think it, you can bring it to you. SO YOU think it will NEVER happen, that brings that to you. Send out the energy of what you want, give it time, like the others have told you here. It takes time for that negative energy to be turned around. It takes time for your positive thoughts to be sincere, don't dispair you will find that lady that loves to have her toes s*cked, loves the message oils and even as a bonus she LOVES To do this to you in return. Just one request PLEASE Let us know when it happens. If you need help with your profile so it attracts the women of your dreams let us know. I BET everyone would help word that puppy for you. Nat32132 Re: Petersh55 write: You know we all have Dreams of things that we want in our lives and the people that we want to share our lives with , but I wonder how these Dreams fare in the world of reality? For example My Dream Life is meeting the Woman of my dreams and making her happy . I would suck her toes , before massuaging her feet with Rose Water or Sandalwood Oil , before telling how much I Love her and asking her how she wants me to Please her . Of Course that will never happen in real Life as No Woman would ever think of Letting me do anything so Personal to her, and I would never wish to insult her by even suggesting such a thing to her , but then that`s the wonderful thing about Dreams , they are things that rarely come true but when they Do they very rarely Disappoint. It would be nice if it would happen but won`t . Anyway is there any body out there with any way out Dreams ? Bless you all Petersh55


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Posted on Sun, Aug 26, 2007 15:40

Fella you've got to change that attitude!! You sounded like me when I first came to this site. Think positive and everything will turn out okay in the end!


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Posted on Sun, Aug 26, 2007 11:13

Why are you so certain your dream won't come true?


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