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Posted on Fri, Aug 10, 2007 19:51

I was thinking about all of the beginnings I've started and all of the ends I've dealt with on the singles sites and face to face meetings. Where is the middle? I'm not sure I know how to deal with the middle now that I'm so "good" at beginning and endings. OMG How about you??? Nat32132


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Posted on Thu, Nov 22, 2007 08:32

Re: CoverGirl write: If I can get past the beginning or find a man strong enough to help me and guide me... then the middle and ending only gets better and better.

I think that helps, finding a strong man who will help and not be afraid of the ups and downs.


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Posted on Thu, Nov 22, 2007 05:31

Okay Covergirl, Now I want lessons !! :-) Natalie Re: CoverGirl write: I have trouble with the beginnings... (See my new "Walls" blog) If I can get past the beginning or find a man strong enough to help me and guide me... then the middle and ending only gets better and better.


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Posted on Thu, Nov 22, 2007 04:42

Okay, Middle is not at all what I'm good at doing. I had a really long talk with a really good friend. She said I get too demanding in the middle part. However, Sometimes I think well,that's who I am there must be someone out there that can see through, ignore it or tolerate it and get along with me in spite of it -D One just never knows if it's true but yeah, I'm me learning about NOT being demanding is a challenge but then if I want something I will modify my behavior to learn to get what I want. I was thinking about it, if there is something I want, but it's just out of my budget, then I watch it for a sale. I modified my behavior doing that. So, if I think about the guys I've met - One by one, there are traits I don't like and traits I do like. Just as I have traits they like and don't like. Sooo I think that if I keep learning by the time I'm 100 I'll really know how to find a keeper !!!


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Posted on Sat, Sep 08, 2007 18:07

OOOO Stacey It sounds like things are working out well, if that's so I'm thrilled for you ! I hope all events are good ones :-) Nat 32132 Re: staceynkansas write: There is always a silver lining and when the dark cloud is huge the silver lining is even larger. I am finding that out right now!


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Posted on Sat, Sep 08, 2007 14:20

Nat - I keep forgetting to tell you but great new photo. You look so beautiful in it.


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Posted on Sat, Sep 08, 2007 14:19

Re: Nisi32132 write: Thanks Stacey, I know you're right and I will keep on plugging away. Like Mike Rowe says, now there is another "type" of guy scratched off my list. I also know more about what not to find and how to identify it. :-D Always a silver lining to every dark side. Nat32132 Re: staceynkansas write: Nat - I know it can get tedious but when you find the 'one', it is so worth it!!

There is always a silver lining and when the dark cloud is huge the silver lining is even larger. I am finding that out right now!


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Posted on Sat, Sep 08, 2007 07:46

Thanks Stacey, I know you're right and I will keep on plugging away. Like Mike Rowe says, now there is another "type" of guy scratched off my list. I also know more about what not to find and how to identify it. :-D Always a silver lining to every dark side. Nat32132 Re: staceynkansas write: Nat - I know it can get tedious but when you find the 'one', it is so worth it!!


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Posted on Fri, Sep 07, 2007 20:27

Nat - I know it can get tedious but when you find the 'one', it is so worth it!!


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Posted on Fri, Sep 07, 2007 15:20

Thanks Stacey, I'm sure I will also, it's the middle part of going through the possibles that sometimes gets tedious. I think I need a break. Still happy in 32132 Natalie


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Posted on Fri, Sep 07, 2007 14:09

Re: Nisi32132 write: sadly, no happy ending here. He wanted a mommy and that's simply not my thing. On the find the real deal once again. Nat32132

The good news is that you figured that out pretty quick rather than months/years down the line... Hang in there kiddo.


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Posted on Fri, Sep 07, 2007 10:57

Re: Nisi32132 write: sadly, no happy ending here. He wanted a mommy and that's simply not my thing. On the find the real deal once again. Nat32132 Re: AmuseMe write: Wow Nat - what a day that must have been! So sorry for your loss (and especially your mothers loss), but oh so happy for your gain! Keep us updated, rub your happy couple-bliss all in our faces like blue and carmel and kewnap lmao.. ;-)

I'm glad you saw that it wasn't what you wanted. Good luck in search. You will find him.


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Posted on Fri, Sep 07, 2007 09:28

sadly, no happy ending here. He wanted a mommy and that's simply not my thing. On the find the real deal once again. Nat32132 Re: AmuseMe write: Wow Nat - what a day that must have been! So sorry for your loss (and especially your mothers loss), but oh so happy for your gain! Keep us updated, rub your happy couple-bliss all in our faces like blue and carmel and kewnap lmao.. ;-)


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Posted on Wed, Aug 29, 2007 08:30

Now Amuse...seems you have some good happy coupleness that you can and should rub in a our faces and hearts too...Actually, I do find a lot of inspiration and hope in hearing the stories and musings of those who are making it work.


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Posted on Tue, Aug 28, 2007 06:32

Wow Nat - what a day that must have been! So sorry for your loss (and especially your mothers loss), but oh so happy for your gain! Keep us updated, rub your happy couple-bliss all in our faces like blue and carmel and kewnap lmao.. ;-)


In your rocking-chair, by your window dreaming, shall you long, alone. In your rocking-chair, by your window, shall you dream such happiness as you may never feel. –Theodore Dreiser

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Posted on Mon, Aug 27, 2007 11:52

Nat - So sorry to hear about your mom's husband passing on. Good thing you are going to be with her. And, so wonderful to hear about your date. You look so beautiful and happy in that photo. Sounds like you had a great time. Keep us posted on what happens with this man.


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Posted on Mon, Aug 27, 2007 08:31

HI !!\ Well, it went well - there is a spark there. now time will tell after the "newness" wears off. He had a rose for me, when we met, we went to see Underdog - then to the Intercoastal - then the beach - then dinner. We talked, got to see how we interacted. He is very comfortable to be around, I was not nervous at all. Other dates my stomach is making VERY unattactive noises GASP ! Yes, we have plans to see each other when I get back from NJ. When I got home I found out that my mom's husband had passed away, he was very ill and we expected it. So - I'll be going to NJ for a week. He is not suffering any longer, he was and will be a great man in my book. One new beginning, one ending. What a bittersweet day.

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Posted on Sun, Aug 26, 2007 21:14

Nisi32132 write: I'll report back on Sunday night !! ( he's not on LF though.. ) Nat32132 Re: bluegirl2006 write: Nat this is awesome. I hope he turns out to be everything you are hoping for.

Ok, Nat...it is Sunday night. Spill the beans. How did it go?!


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Posted on Fri, Aug 24, 2007 19:15

Oh yes, Nat. Please do share if your date was fun.


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Posted on Fri, Aug 24, 2007 15:52

Okay Blue, I'm meeting him on Sunday for a movie, very high school huh? He wants to see Underdog !! That should keep out attention.... We've chatted for two weeks know and I'm comfortable with him enough to not worry. He lives not far from where I work which is convenient also. Now, one new outfit coming up !!! I'll report back on Sunday night !! ( he's not on LF though.. ) Nat32132 Re: bluegirl2006 write: Nat this is awesome. I hope he turns out to be everything you are hoping for.


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