I think that helps, finding a strong man who will help and not be afraid of the ups and downs.
Re: CoverGirl write: If I can get past the beginning or find a man strong enough to help me and guide me... then the middle and ending only gets better and better.
Re: CoverGirl write: If I can get past the beginning or find a man strong enough to help me and guide me... then the middle and ending only gets better and better.
I think that helps, finding a strong man who will help and not be afraid of the ups and downs.
Okay, Middle is not at all what I'm good at doing.
I had a really long talk with a really good friend. She said I get too demanding in the middle part. However, Sometimes I think well,that's who I am there must be someone out there that can see through, ignore it or tolerate it and get along with me in spite of it -D
One just never knows if it's true but yeah, I'm me learning about NOT being demanding is a challenge but then if I want something I will modify my behavior to learn to get what I want.
I was thinking about it, if there is something I want, but it's just out of my budget, then I watch it for a sale. I modified my behavior doing that.
So, if I think about the guys I've met - One by one, there are traits I don't like and traits I do like. Just as I have traits they like and don't like.
Sooo I think that if I keep learning by the time I'm 100 I'll really know how to find a keeper !!!
Okay, Middle is not at all what I'm good at doing.
I had a really long talk with a really good friend. She said I get too demanding in the middle part. However, Sometimes I think well,that's who I am there must be someone out there that can see through, ignore it or tolerate it and get along with me in spite of it -D
One just never knows if it's true but yeah, I'm me learning about NOT being demanding is a challenge but then if I want something I will modify my behavior to learn to get what I want.
I was thinking about it, if there is something I want, but it's just out of my budget, then I watch it for a sale. I modified my behavior doing that.
So, if I think about the guys I've met - One by one, there are traits I don't like and traits I do like. Just as I have traits they like and don't like.
Sooo I think that if I keep learning by the time I'm 100 I'll really know how to find a keeper !!!
OOOO Stacey It sounds like things are working out well, if that's so I'm thrilled for you !
I hope all events are good ones :-)
Nat 32132 Re:
staceynkansas write: There is always a silver lining and when the dark cloud is huge the silver lining is even larger. I am finding that out right now!
OOOO Stacey It sounds like things are working out well, if that's so I'm thrilled for you !
I hope all events are good ones :-)
Nat 32132
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staceynkansas write:
There is always a silver lining and when the dark cloud is huge the silver lining is even larger. I am finding that out right now!
I'm glad you saw that it wasn't what you wanted. Good luck in search. You will find him.
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Nisi32132 write: sadly, no happy ending here. He wanted a mommy and that's simply not my thing.
On the find the real deal once again.
Nat32132
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AmuseMe write: Wow Nat - what a day that must have been! So sorry for your loss (and especially your mothers loss), but oh so happy for your gain! Keep us updated, rub your happy couple-bliss all in our faces like blue and carmel and kewnap lmao.. ;-)
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Nisi32132 write: sadly, no happy ending here. He wanted a mommy and that's simply not my thing.
On the find the real deal once again.
Nat32132
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AmuseMe write: Wow Nat - what a day that must have been! So sorry for your loss (and especially your mothers loss), but oh so happy for your gain! Keep us updated, rub your happy couple-bliss all in our faces like blue and carmel and kewnap lmao.. ;-)
I'm glad you saw that it wasn't what you wanted. Good luck in search. You will find him.
sadly, no happy ending here. He wanted a mommy and that's simply not my thing.
On the find the real deal once again.
Nat32132
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AmuseMe write: Wow Nat - what a day that must have been! So sorry for your loss (and especially your mothers loss), but oh so happy for your gain! Keep us updated, rub your happy couple-bliss all in our faces like blue and carmel and kewnap lmao.. ;-)
sadly, no happy ending here. He wanted a mommy and that's simply not my thing.
On the find the real deal once again.
Nat32132
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AmuseMe write:
Wow Nat - what a day that must have been! So sorry for your loss (and especially your mothers loss), but oh so happy for your gain! Keep us updated, rub your happy couple-bliss all in our faces like blue and carmel and kewnap lmao.. ;-)
Now Amuse...seems you have some good happy coupleness that you can and should rub in a our faces and hearts too...Actually, I do find a lot of inspiration and hope in hearing the stories and musings of those who are making it work.
Now Amuse...seems you have some good happy coupleness that you can and should rub in a our faces and hearts too...Actually, I do find a lot of inspiration and hope in hearing the stories and musings of those who are making it work.
Wow Nat - what a day that must have been! So sorry for your loss (and especially your mothers loss), but oh so happy for your gain! Keep us updated, rub your happy couple-bliss all in our faces like blue and carmel and kewnap lmao.. ;-)
Wow Nat - what a day that must have been! So sorry for your loss (and especially your mothers loss), but oh so happy for your gain! Keep us updated, rub your happy couple-bliss all in our faces like blue and carmel and kewnap lmao.. ;-)
In your rocking-chair, by your window dreaming, shall you long, alone. In your rocking-chair, by your window, shall you dream such happiness as you may never feel. –Theodore Dreiser
Nat - So sorry to hear about your mom's husband passing on. Good thing you are going to be with her.
And, so wonderful to hear about your date. You look so beautiful and happy in that photo. Sounds like you had a great time. Keep us posted on what happens with this man.
Nat - So sorry to hear about your mom's husband passing on. Good thing you are going to be with her.
And, so wonderful to hear about your date. You look so beautiful and happy in that photo. Sounds like you had a great time. Keep us posted on what happens with this man.
HI !!\ Well, it went well - there is a spark there. now time will tell after the "newness" wears off.
He had a rose for me, when we met, we went to see Underdog - then to the Intercoastal - then the beach - then dinner.
We talked, got to see how we interacted. He is very comfortable to be around, I was not nervous at all. Other dates my stomach is making VERY unattactive noises GASP ! Yes, we have plans to see each other when I get back from NJ.
When I got home I found out that my mom's husband had passed away, he was very ill and we expected it. So - I'll be going to NJ for a week. He is not suffering any longer, he was and will be a great man in my book.
One new beginning, one ending. What a bittersweet day.
HI !!\
Well, it went well - there is a spark there. now time will tell after the "newness" wears off.
He had a rose for me, when we met, we went to see Underdog - then to the Intercoastal - then the beach - then dinner.
We talked, got to see how we interacted. He is very comfortable to be around, I was not nervous at all. Other dates my stomach is making VERY unattactive noises GASP !
Yes, we have plans to see each other when I get back from NJ.
When I got home I found out that my mom's husband had passed away, he was very ill and we expected it. So - I'll be going to NJ for a week.
He is not suffering any longer, he was and will be a great man in my book.
One new beginning, one ending.
What a bittersweet day.
Okay Blue, I'm meeting him on Sunday for a movie, very high school huh? He wants to see Underdog !! That should keep out attention....
We've chatted for two weeks know and I'm comfortable with him enough to not worry. He lives not far from where I work which is convenient also. Now, one new outfit coming up !!!
I'll report back on Sunday night !! ( he's not on LF though.. )
Nat32132 Re:
bluegirl2006 write: Nat this is awesome. I hope he turns out to be everything you are hoping for.
Okay Blue, I'm meeting him on Sunday for a movie, very high school huh? He wants to see Underdog !! That should keep out attention....
We've chatted for two weeks know and I'm comfortable with him enough to not worry. He lives not far from where I work which is convenient also. Now, one new outfit coming up !!!
I'll report back on Sunday night !! ( he's not on LF though.. )
Nat32132
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bluegirl2006 write:
Nat this is awesome. I hope he turns out to be everything you are hoping for.
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