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naught_bbw
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Posted on Sun, May 16, 2010 17:52

I got my ass chewed at work today. Now if only they literally chewed it off, I'd be the skinniest chick there. I'm trying to make light of a crappy situation. Anyone want to share another "if only...?"


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Posted on Wed, May 19, 2010 10:13

Quoting whitetexasrose

If only I didn't have a hard time being as mean to people as they are to me.  I mean seriously.

My ex called last night and wanted to act like it was old times.  I told him about passing on some heirloom wedding rings to my cousin who is getting married in two weeks and he asked why I did it.  I told him the truth.  That I thought m grandmother would have wanted it that way and of course I let it slip that "its not like I'm going to need them anytime soon"

He went silent and said it was a mean thing to say and hung up the phone on me.  I cried for 30 minutes.  I don't like being mean.  Yet I can't see how telling the truth is mean.  So yes...if only.



Sounds like a man with a guilty conscience to me! If he really is an ex, then it's nothing to do with him, and the only person you were being "mean" to is yourself. And let's face it we're all entitled to do that to ourselves if we wish!


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Posted on Tue, May 18, 2010 21:29

WhiteTexasRose Don't let the SSOB get you down.I think It was a Great thing to do.Smoosh I would still get in to trouble some how and I dont think my face could take it!


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Posted on Tue, May 18, 2010 08:56

If only I didn't have a hard time being as mean to people as they are to me.  I mean seriously.

My ex called last night and wanted to act like it was old times.  I told him about passing on some heirloom wedding rings to my cousin who is getting married in two weeks and he asked why I did it.  I told him the truth.  That I thought m grandmother would have wanted it that way and of course I let it slip that "its not like I'm going to need them anytime soon"

He went silent and said it was a mean thing to say and hung up the phone on me.  I cried for 30 minutes.  I don't like being mean.  Yet I can't see how telling the truth is mean.  So yes...if only.



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Posted on Mon, May 17, 2010 21:03

Sorry to hear that your boss was a SSOB!


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Posted on Mon, May 17, 2010 19:31

If only you could say out loud what you are thinking in your head or saying under your breath without fear of repercussion. "really - you're going to wear that out in public?" "and you got that idea all by your little old self?" "you're going to put that $ 1.52 coffee on your credit card - seriously?" Lots of tongue in cheek thoughts go thru my head - some slip out - lol ( or maybe I'm the only one laughing ) I hope your week gets better! :)


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Posted on Mon, May 17, 2010 15:13

How about If I only knew that what he wanted was a buddy for when ever he came off the road... Live with me but let me have lady friends.... you can have men friends I just don't want to know about it....


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Posted on Mon, May 17, 2010 07:53

yep, I do! If only I had more confidence back in High School... I'd have avoided a few lousy relationships!...,but then again, I might not be who I am with who I'm with today! Love ya, Elaine


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