Quoting msbigthick:

CAN YOU HONESTLY SAY YOU KNOW WHAT YOU WANT WHEN YOU FIND THE RIGHT PERSON....I CANT SAY I DO SOMETIMES WHAT WE WANT IS NOT WHAT WE NEED AND I THINK THERE ARE TIMES WE NEED A BALANCE IN OUR LIFE

CAN YOU HONESTLY SAY YOU KNOW WHAT YOU WANT WHEN YOU FIND THE RIGHT PERSON....I CANT SAY I DO SOMETIMES WHAT WE WANT IS NOT WHAT WE NEED AND I THINK THERE ARE TIMES WE NEED A BALANCE IN OUR LIFE

Quoting msbigthick:

i think sumtimes we dont look at the longterm goals when it comes to relationships

i think sumtimes we dont look at the longterm goals when it comes to relationships

Quoting islandgal64:

Maybe we get a bit too prescriptive sometimes when stating what we want .... for all the preferences we might have, most of us are probably just looking for someone who is good for them and good to them

Maybe we get a bit too prescriptive sometimes when stating what we want .... for all the preferences we might have, most of us are probably just looking for someone who is good for them and good to them

Quoting one2one:

I think I do know what I want, but I also agree that it's not always the same as what I need.

What I really LIKE is being surprised by someone or something about them that I would have never guess would fit perfectly with one of those wants/needs. I think we all learn a lot about ourselves through other people. And sometimes I actually get more than I'd dreamed of. :)

I think I do know what I want, but I also agree that it's not always the same as what I need.

What I really LIKE is being surprised by someone or something about them that I would have never guess would fit perfectly with one of those wants/needs. I think we all learn a lot about ourselves through other people. And sometimes I actually get more than I'd dreamed of. :)

Quoting butterbll:

I agree some times what we WANT and we actually NEED some times can be Diametrically opposed.

I agree some times what we WANT and we actually NEED some times can be Diametrically opposed.

Quoting Babycakes63:

MS, Wow, I had the same problem for a long time. Then I decided to do what I wanted to do, I experimented with several types of men...and women... and then when I figured out what I liked... I kept searching for just that. Lo and behold, he was a friend! and now I couldn't be happier! Good luck to you! Elaine

MS, Wow, I had the same problem for a long time. Then I decided to do what I wanted to do, I experimented with several types of men...and women... and then when I figured out what I liked... I kept searching for just that. Lo and behold, he was a friend! and now I couldn't be happier! Good luck to you! Elaine