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Posted on Sun, Mar 04, 2012 17:26

I feel If that person makes you happy I say go for It !!!! However I feel dating out side a nother owns race can pose some some additional stresses to a relationship that might not be present if obne was to date inside their own race . One hazzard,You could get resentment or even out right Biggotry from your partners extended family or community . Also other hazzards could include be having to deal with the snide comments and stares that some may make in their Ignorance . I my self have dated a woman who was looked white but had some Native American and African American ansestry aswell .I also dated another who was Asian and Casausian . However If I was not a relationship right now , and a African American woman asked me out I would seriously consider a relationship if we meshed . I think Shakesphere said it best "To thine own self be true" I take this to be If it makes you happy do it . I feel The rest of the world can go stand on the track of progress and remove themselves from the gene pool of humanity.


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Posted on Sat, Mar 03, 2012 11:46

I like all kinds of men. Its more so based on his character rather than skin color. I have dated outside of my race and some of those were my best relationships ever. Culturally some men are different and treat women differently. I like someone who is not afraid to express their love. Love comes in all colors I wish more people would see it that way.


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Posted on Mon, Feb 27, 2012 09:35

This all reminds me of a joke by Chris Rock. He said that the reason black women hate on black men that date white women is because black women are not interested in white men. I thought that was kind of funny. Of course it's a generalization, but I have heard white men say that they find it hard to get a black woman to date them, so if you are a black woman that would be interested in dating white men, I think it would be a great idea to put that in your profile -- that you are interested in white men as well as black. That way they can feel encouraged to approach you!!



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Posted on Mon, Feb 27, 2012 09:31

I have dated men of other races and I have found that there have been problems with family (usually theirs because my parents are no longer around) and with society (especially because I have found that black women tend to hate on seeing a black man with a white woman in public). I have also had the experience of a black man who moved to Texas from New York being so paranoid that he would not kiss me unless we were in an enclosed room where he was sure no one would see. His constant looking over his shoulder to make sure he was not going to be lynched rained on my parade, to say the least!

I would be open to dating other ethnicities, if I happened to meet a guy in my day-to-day comings and goings and we wanted to be together. Then I would feel that I just have to deal with all of that. But when it comes to meeting people through the personals, I feel like, "Why ask for trouble?"

Also, when I do see interracial couples I ADMIRE them and usually go out of my way to give them a smile...!!!



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Posted on Mon, Feb 27, 2012 00:10

well hopefully being on here you will me a few nice gentle thats not in your race....i have date a few and dont have a problem longs you treat me right and respect me


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Posted on Sat, Feb 25, 2012 23:35

race isnt a issue its how you treat me


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