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MISOZI
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Posted on Fri, Apr 14, 2006 06:24

I often thought that us big women are less desirable to men due to our physical appearance. Thats when i was younger. i now look at the person inside but much more. I still look for the traditional values in a man but there are a lot of hard working women nowadays, who are successful and as a result we no longer look for a man to take careof our every need, and become our provider, but can we just accept anyone fairly presentable? Can we actually respect a partner if things we value as desirable are lacking in them? Can we actually fall in love with someone who we are struggling to respect? is there a balance or compromise to this. am 41 and struggling to find a man i can genuinely fall for.

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Posted on Thu, Apr 27, 2006 13:25

Trust and respect is the core to any relationship, dont settle for less girl. No one should, will only end in disappointment for one of you. It has to be mutual.


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MISOZI
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Posted on Tue, Apr 18, 2006 16:08

thank you flashgirl.


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Posted on Mon, Apr 17, 2006 21:38

You said it all, as a young girl i alway's wished that the popular people would really see the real me, they didn't which was their loss. But my taste has changed in the guys that i look at, I know now that i need a man who is as independent as i am but then again i am a girl who gets girly at times so patient shoulders and a wicked sence of humor is top knotch for me, plus i am looking for someone who is a bit more grounded then i am since i tend to live by the seat of my pants. good luck in your search for mr. right, i pray that have met mine... from this site. you are a very beautiful woman and you deserve the world.


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