Quoting metal25:

hi, i got a membership to this site to meet new people, but I haven't had any luck yet I was wondering if anyone could give me some pointers I'm new to this.

hi, i got a membership to this site to meet new people, but I haven't had any luck yet I was wondering if anyone could give me some pointers I'm new to this.

Quoting jemgirl63:

Just be careful in your search and don't believe everything you are told by someone you are talking too. There are scammers on most sites so just be careful. If they ask for money, head the other way!

Just be careful in your search and don't believe everything you are told by someone you are talking too. There are scammers on most sites so just be careful. If they ask for money, head the other way!

Quoting metal25:

Thanks a lot for the advice everyone I've been having trouble trying to post a profile pic, hopefully it should be up soon. thanks again!

Thanks a lot for the advice everyone I've been having trouble trying to post a profile pic, hopefully it should be up soon. thanks again!

Quoting wanders28:

I have to say that I totally agree with the fact that a picture is needed to get the ball rolling. I have been on dating sites off and on for about 6 years. Obviously I don't have the magic answer on how to meet people, but keep on trying. Send as many e-mails and winks and flirts as you can! That's the best way to get youself out there! Good luck!

I have to say that I totally agree with the fact that a picture is needed to get the ball rolling. I have been on dating sites off and on for about 6 years. Obviously I don't have the magic answer on how to meet people, but keep on trying. Send as many e-mails and winks and flirts as you can! That's the best way to get youself out there! Good luck!

Quoting ozredhead62:

Hi there Metal,

Happy Birthday :)

As the others here have said post a pic, one that you are smiling in or at least look friendly lol

Then start checking out the profiles and send some winks. The internet can make it a safe place to be yourself and open up, even if you're a bit shy.

Good luck and have lots of fun
Ozred

Hi there Metal,

Happy Birthday :)

As the others here have said post a pic, one that you are smiling in or at least look friendly lol

Then start checking out the profiles and send some winks. The internet can make it a safe place to be yourself and open up, even if you're a bit shy.

Good luck and have lots of fun
Ozred

Life is only as wonderful as you think it is.

Quoting butterbll:

In general like Smoosh and hereeyeamagain2 both have said a photo be nice . I myself bypass most womens profiles that have no photo's. I hate to say also most other people bypass profiles with no photo's as well. Some people's BS radar goes off if one does not have a pic. Some feel rightly or wrongly there must be something they are tring to hide. Not getting caught by their partner if the are stepping out aka cheating.Good luck in your search.

In general like Smoosh and hereeyeamagain2 both have said a photo be nice . I myself bypass most womens profiles that have no photo's. I hate to say also most other people bypass profiles with no photo's as well. Some people's BS radar goes off if one does not have a pic. Some feel rightly or wrongly there must be something they are tring to hide. Not getting caught by their partner if the are stepping out aka cheating.Good luck in your search.

Quoting smoosh:

Hi Metal25

A picture says a lot of course if you happen to have a recent clear one. A little more info. on what you would like to do day to day and waht you are looking for in a lady. Participating in blogs is good as people read your opinions and get to know you.
Welcome to LF - and go with your gut. Always good to get to know someone before you hand over all your personal info. such as phone #/ address etc. Friendly people are everywhere - same as the bitter ones and the scammers.
Good Luck!

Hi Metal25

A picture says a lot of course if you happen to have a recent clear one. A little more info. on what you would like to do day to day and waht you are looking for in a lady. Participating in blogs is good as people read your opinions and get to know you.
Welcome to LF - and go with your gut. Always good to get to know someone before you hand over all your personal info. such as phone #/ address etc. Friendly people are everywhere - same as the bitter ones and the scammers.
Good Luck!

Quoting hereeyeamagain2:

hi metal,
I have been on and off BBWsingles sites for over 14 years. It has worked well for me. these websites give us a chance to meet people that we would never just run into. being open and honest is a wonderful asset. on your profile simply just explain what you are looking for. You should always have a few pictures on your profile many woman will not even talk to you if you do not have a picture.
have fun with the experince and enjoy.
you have to be proactive in your search. play with the search option, try differnt combos of what your looking for. if you find any that spark your interst. contact them. see if they reply.
have fun julia

hi metal,
I have been on and off BBWsingles sites for over 14 years. It has worked well for me. these websites give us a chance to meet people that we would never just run into. being open and honest is a wonderful asset. on your profile simply just explain what you are looking for. You should always have a few pictures on your profile many woman will not even talk to you if you do not have a picture.
have fun with the experince and enjoy.
you have to be proactive in your search. play with the search option, try differnt combos of what your looking for. if you find any that spark your interst. contact them. see if they reply.
have fun julia