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Kutey_py
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Posted on Sun, Jul 09, 2006 15:57

I have come across a few guys lately that just won't talk to me because I'm 6'2". can anyone explain why it is that men seem to be afraid of taller women? Im really confused, why is it that we can accept men who are taller and in fact enjoy it .. but men cannot accept taller women?


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Posted on Mon, Oct 02, 2006 12:34

dbigrunt, you are the second man that I have heard say that they are intimidated by tall women because they are not well endowed in the "area of pleasure". An actual expert who studies and gives advice about sxtx, said that a woman's "female part" is only sensitive up to three inches from the opening. This particular expert also said on her show, that a woman's height has nothing to do with the depth of her "female part", just like a man's shoe size has nothing to do with the size of his "male part". Now, I have done my own extensive non-scientific research on size throughout the years and I will say that I have never had a problem with a man's "male part", even the smaller ones. I have though had a problem with "male's parts" when the man did not know what he was doing and was not willing to learn to do what I needed to be pleased. The real truth about pleasing anyone is that most of it is technique, how the parties feel about "the act", and patience on both each person's part. There has been too much expert research, studies and expert advise published for grown folks in the year 2006 to go around thinking that body parts that aren't even associated with "down there" have anything to do with giving pleasure to ones partner. Now stop letting tall women intimidate you and give them a chance. You might find that "once you go%2


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Posted on Sun, Oct 01, 2006 10:20

x_lj_x try Avenue..online, they carry plus size tall, and petite sizes. I am 5'11", I have come to realize that the height issue is my issue, if it is ever an issue. As someone already mentioned, men assume that women want a taller man, and don't even go there. In many cases it is true. My favorite dance partner is 5'8".


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Posted on Sat, Sep 30, 2006 16:13

Gentlemen....Kudos to you for loving tall women. I am a tall woman (6'1) and I must say, feel free to approach us and tell us how beautiful we are. We ususally get ask how tall we are by so many people, it is hard to tell who is sincere and who is not. So, we tend to be rather shy. If you are interested, let us know.


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Posted on Thu, Aug 24, 2006 04:05

Hi! I'm not afraid of tall women, quite the opposite I love well grown girls/women who are much taller as my 5'09". Didn't anyone say, You should look up to a beautiful woman? I do enjoy that!


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Posted on Tue, Aug 22, 2006 05:42

I LOVE tall women! Wish I could meet some that are over 6' so I could show them how a 5'10" man can make them happy.


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Posted on Tue, Aug 22, 2006 00:36

I'm 6'4" and I've always thought women were intimidated by my height so it does go both ways. I actually find tall women very attractive, the most gorgeous woman I've ever seem was around the 6' mark. I guess the only real explanation is that not everyones wired the same way. I know its no consolation but plenty of women over the years have found my height offputting. I hope you find someone who's sees past your height.


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Posted on Sat, Aug 19, 2006 21:28

not all of us men are intimidated by height i think of the person first and how she treats me ..i find it sexy for my lady to be tall im only 5'8" and ive dated ladies from 5'2" to 6'7" and i seen to get a long better if i just look at the inside first not the out no matter how tall or stort they are the heart is what counts the most


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Posted on Sat, Aug 19, 2006 19:19

i have nothing against tall women, but i have to say most tall women on the personal sites i belong to are looking for guys taller than themselves. obviously at 5'8" i'm not going to bother contacting them. i suppose a lot of men have the idea that tall ladies would prefer a tall guy.


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Posted on Sat, Aug 19, 2006 19:17

i have nothing against tall women, but i have to say most tall women on the personal sites i belong to are looking for guys taller than themselves. obviously at 5'8" i'm not going to bother contacting them. i suppose a lot of men have the idea that tall ladies would prefer a tall guy.


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Posted on Fri, Aug 18, 2006 09:30

I have found that most tall woman are not interested in shorter men. several women ive talked to that are tall only want tall men. im 5'7 and the height of a woman is not important to me woman can be beautiful and hot short tall does not matter.


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Posted on Thu, Aug 17, 2006 12:18

It's a domination thing. I usually prefer my women short and stacked from front to back. I have dated taller women too, but not as a rule. I'm gonna tell you a secret also. Taller women are sexually intimidaing. I'm a little above average in the area of pleasure. So I'm often apprehensive to date a taller woman. The ones that I have dated all fell in my lap. I didn't chase them. They all approached me first. And yes I had sex with them all. And was able to satisfy them all. Still there is that apprehension. Come to think of it the best sex I've ever had in my life was with one of my, "Amazons". Maybe I need to rethink my position on dating tall women.


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Posted on Tue, Aug 01, 2006 23:20

Hi Tall women I myself am only 5'7" but my last gf was 5"11. I don't know about other guys but I don't even check her height when I am looking on here just the profile to see the personility. I wish you all luck in your search.


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Posted on Fri, Jul 28, 2006 17:46

*scratches head* ... yeah ummm i always end up attracting short girls ... like 5'2 my first was about 5'9ish. I'd have to say i prefer ladies tall .... and tall and bbw .... hey that can be a verrrry beautiful combination. It would be kinda odd me standing on my tip toes to give a girl a kiss though .... man what a role reversal.... but fun none the less hehehe im 6'0 myself.


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Posted on Thu, Jul 27, 2006 19:04

I know what you mean. I am only 5'10" myself, but that's still TOO TALL for most of the guys I meet around here. And the tall ones all seem to want the dainty delicate girls that can't quite claim 5'. WHAT GIVES??? But keep your chin up, someone is out there for all of us, we just have to keep looking and be open minded when that person finally comes along, they may not be what we pictured ourselves with, but could be THE ONE! RED


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Posted on Thu, Jul 27, 2006 15:41

Gotta say I love tall women....i'm 5'11 and when i meet taller women i'm in awe....love a tall women....don't know why some guys feel inferior...love tall women...i must be the exception...lol...xx


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Posted on Thu, Jul 27, 2006 07:10

I too am 6'2" and it certainly is true that there are men out there who are not attracted to tall women but there are plenty out there that are. I am also on another site similar to this (for Talls) and I have been approached by more men shorter than me than taller than me. I think everyone needs to realize that we all have our perferences and things we are attracted to. We don't consider our perferences wrong yet we are quick to believe there is something wrong with other peoples preferences. I can't tell you the number of times I've heard women complain that they didn't have a chance because they had kids, or were too fat, or too tall and men should give them a chance. WHY? If someone isn't attracted to you because of your personal attributes then they aren't attracted to you. Attraction is a powerful thing, but the good news is that there are all kinds of people out there. The key is to find someone who is attracted to you that you too are attracted to, don't settle because if you open yourself to it, it is out there.


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Posted on Thu, Jul 27, 2006 06:05

Well, I gotta confess I'm on the other side of this spectrum at 5'2 & never having intimidated someone with my size i can't really comment on that bit..... I can tell ya it kinda at the other end as well, that aside.... damn girl, what i wouldn't give to be 6' 2 ;) (grass is always greener huh?) Hey, you're cute, you're tall..... I wouldn't let it bug ya what anyone else thinks... Purdy


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Posted on Thu, Jul 13, 2006 07:25

I definatley know wht u are talkin about I am 6'1" and its hard to find men at least my height or taller. And the shorter men dont even give ya the time of day ...OH well I look at it as their loss


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Posted on Mon, Jul 10, 2006 14:24

Not all men are afraid of tall women, myself being one of them. When you run into those that do have a problem with it, pass them by and just know that I am not the only man out here that does not have a problem with taller women.


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