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Posted on Tue, Jun 12, 2007 13:42

What is your definition of a slut? Seems everyone has their own version. And is being a slut necessarily a bad thing? And how come men never get judged negatively by their sexual endeavors? How come when the folks at work find out who a man is sleeping with he gains power and when they find out who a woman is sleeping with she loses power?


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Posted on Fri, Oct 26, 2007 04:25

According to the dictionary. ""slut (SEXUALLY ACTIVE WOMAN) Show phonetics noun [C] VERY INFORMAL DISAPPROVING a woman who has sexual relationships with a lot of men without any emotional involvement"" Sounds like most of the men i know. But why does SHE loose credibility and power? I think it goes back a long way to why we invented marriage. Some say that marriage is to ensure exclusive rights to a woman's womb, this makes sense because the man needs to know if he is investing in and raising HIS own child and not accidentally putting energy into continuing someone Else's genes and someone Else's child (sound familiar?). A woman who puts it about would be seen as less valuable/reliable with a higher risk of unknowingly raising another mans child. Men on the other hand have been historically dominant over women and have the ability to father hundreds of children in a year which is fine after a war when the male population is very low but today? Its very unfair that men are praised for being sluts, but then again its appalling that men get paid more for doing the same amount of work as women. we have a long way to go with the equality thing. I could be talking a load of rubbish though lol.


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Posted on Wed, Oct 24, 2007 21:32

i have a slut Sexy Luxurious Utility Truck


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Posted on Fri, Aug 24, 2007 13:35

grrrr my neighbors cat, and she's loud too...


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Posted on Tue, Aug 21, 2007 08:52

oops sorry there thunder - did not see your q. to me before now. So to answer the Q. I am of the second variety "positive definition could be anyone who unabashedly enjoys their sexuality, is uninhibited and considers sexual pleasure a natural healthy component of a balanced and well rounded life" but the more I think about it - the more I would say that I would never use the word slut to describe myself sine so many do use it as a perjorative. I would prefer that folks get enlightened and less judgmental about women's sexuality - more open like many are about men's sexuality. I mean I am selective in who I get intimate with - more than most actually, but if I want to act on feelings of lust - I will without holding back. Lots of guys talk a good game about being appreciative of a woman who sees more than one man or who exercises her desires should she want too - but I am not sure what it is, whether insecurity or competiveness but fella's do hate the idea that that a woman may have been with another guy - even if they are only in the beginings of a relationship. I find men still seem to want their potential partner to not have been very sexually active or empowered. And both men and women are quick to cast judgements. Just my experience.


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Posted on Thu, Aug 16, 2007 00:01

Well Honey B.according to your latest post what word would you put on yourself.You are certainly not sexually repressed,you are completly unashamed of your sexuality so where does that put you according to your positive and negative definitions of "slut".As open and honest and unashamed as you are I would not think of you as a slut,because for me I like that in a woman.But how do you see yourself ? Now as for you Legal Eagle I would certainly agree with you,speaking for myself I like the old saying"A lady in public,and a slut in the bedroom" I don't think there are too many guys who don't enjoy that as well,at least if their being honest about it !!


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Posted on Wed, Aug 15, 2007 22:31

Re:lougenessis write: a promiscuous sow. lol

Who are you calling a sow? oooooink. just teasing. I just got a book the other day called the ethical slut. I have not dug into it yet but love the title. I am thinking more and more that words like slut are just tools to keep women from not owning and being powerful and comfortable and unashamed of our sexuality. In so many many ways, many many societies are terribly frightened of a sexually unashamed and empowered woman. My understanding of female genital mutilation in african cultures and the repressive constriants of womens' sexuality in places like Iran and Afghanistan is as manifestations of patriarchal traditions created to make women either fear sexual pleasure or not be able to have sexual pleasure. How better to keep a woman from straying and for a man in more primitive situations be more certain that he is the father of a child. We all know that sexual freedom and liberation came on the heels of birthcontrol. Think about how incredibly empowering that has been for women. So I guess in the negative, I think a slut is seen as someone who defines themself by, leads with and often does not go much deeper than their sexuality. But a different, positive definition could be anyone who unabashedly enjoys their sexuality, is uninhibited and considers sexual pleasure a natural healthy component of a balanced and well rounded life. What bugs me is when the two definitions are confused.


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Posted on Wed, Aug 15, 2007 17:10

Well, I was raised to think that sluts are a bad thing. I don't have a lot of experience but I've definitely learned it's ok to be a slut for your man (monogamous relationship). In fact, I think they like it, right guys?


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Posted on Tue, Aug 14, 2007 10:13

a promiscuous sow. lol


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Posted on Sat, Aug 11, 2007 03:20

Sorry the word "slut" is not a word that I ever use . I believe that we all do and say things that we regret in our lives , and those of us with a conscience punish ourselves severely for those actions and words .(usually more severely than is really necessary ) When it comes down to it promiscuity in either sex it in nobody`s interests as in the end it destroys your repution and does nothing to enhance your phsyical ,mental or psychic health . And does it really and truely bring you happiness? I doubt it very much . Bless you all (Petersh55)


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Posted on Thu, Jul 05, 2007 03:26

Personally I think men and women can both be sluts. My thoughts also are that being a slut is not a bad thing. I personally enjoy seeing a BBW dressed like a slut because not only am I enjoying the view, but I also know she is comfortable with her body and not ashamed to show what she as.


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Posted on Wed, Jul 04, 2007 19:01

Re: Thunderheart44 write: Oh you girls are so out of control,making me long for my rodeo days !! lol I would hate to see all 3 of you together[ Honey b.,Wylde,and sweet carmel]the world would simply not be the same.Mere mortal men would melt in your wake,a tidal wave of femine wyles.I'm afraid the only thing that could stop you ladies outside of the transformers would be..... ME. lol

me-yooooow...mortal men already melt...puuuuurrrrrrr...come on over, I'll even tuck my claws away for a bit...take a little time to discover your melting point...*wink*...


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Posted on Tue, Jul 03, 2007 16:04

Oh you girls are so out of control,making me long for my rodeo days !! lol I would hate to see all 3 of you together[ Honey b.,Wylde,and sweet carmel]the world would simply not be the same.Mere mortal men would melt in your wake,a tidal wave of femine wyles.I'm afraid the only thing that could stop you ladies outside of the transformers would be..... ME. lol


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Posted on Tue, Jul 03, 2007 15:44

Re: honeybiscuit write: putting on my chaps, grabing my cowgirl hat and pointy toed boots. I'm a comin Wylde looks like we got some herding and roping to do...Carmel - you got a pony to help us corral the herd. TEE hee.

heh heh heh...pointy toed boots...heh heh heh...spurs...heh heh heh Ride'em cowgirl!!! Yehaw!!!


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Posted on Mon, Jul 02, 2007 19:37

Re: wyldechild write: Thunderheart44 write: And here we have yet another thread that has turned into a Dom/sub whip cracking,leather,and lace,pain and pleasure packed blog of a good time !! lol ~~~~ Yehaw!!!!!!!! Oooo, did I say that out loud???...lol Wylde you and Honey B.certainly know how to lead the men around by their proverbial leash.You bad,bad girls ! lol ~~~~ Just doing my part to provide a good public service...he he he

putting on my chaps, grabing my cowgirl hat and pointy toed boots. I'm a comin Wylde looks like we got some herding and roping to do...Carmel - you got a pony to help us corral the herd. TEE hee.


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Posted on Sun, Jul 01, 2007 13:29


Thunderheart44 write: And here we have yet another thread that has turned into a Dom/sub whip cracking,leather,and lace,pain and pleasure packed blog of a good time !! lol ~~~~ Yehaw!!!!!!!! Oooo, did I say that out loud???...lol Wylde you and Honey B.certainly know how to lead the men around by their proverbial leash.You bad,bad girls ! lol ~~~~ Just doing my part to provide a good public service...he he he


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Posted on Sat, Jun 30, 2007 13:00

Ok I've been reading this from the beginning, well there is still such a thing as a slut . I think we somewhat answered it . It can be aperson that is intimate with anyone no matter what the circumstances ( weather the other person is in a relationship or they themselves are ) and with out regard of the consequences of said actions. And I dont think it always has to do with numbers of intimacies , as many previous persons have. If you do your sisters husband It may be the only man you've ever been with, but your a slut if you do that. And YES jjiggle there is a term for men that are sluts we use it here in the midwest, they are whoredogs. both very good descriptives lol


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Posted on Sat, Jun 30, 2007 02:56

And here we have yet another thread that has turned into a Dom/sub whip cracking,leather,and lace,pain and pleasure packed blog of a good time !! lol Wylde you and Honey B.certainly know how to lead the men around by their proverbial leash.You bad,bad girls ! lol


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Posted on Fri, Jun 29, 2007 21:11

Re: honeybiscuit write: LOL - I say go for it Bele. You only live once! Re:bizzle49 write: the billowy tent might make you a slut so be careful with what you buy LOL

And add some beads and lace, can't go wrong there!!!


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Posted on Fri, Jun 29, 2007 21:07

Re: honeybiscuit write: Re:johnnywa write: " They " " House dresses " " Lawn chairs" !!!!!!I am in,,,where do I sign up. Peircingly loud cracking noise as red kangaroo whip slices the air just above Johnny's head slightly knicking/notching his left ear. Eiiiiowwwww!!! that hurts he cries.

Whoooeee, someone must have done something quite wicked to warrent the use of such an intense instrument...*ouch*...although the crack of a single tail is really an awesome sound...*wink*


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