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Wanted: one nice man for a fabulous large lady Posted on Apr 07, 2007 at 11:13 PM
Last date a wonderful woman who is not after a man for his looks, his house, his car or his wallet. I offer sincerity, love, understanding, fun, HUMOR, fidelity and brutal honesty...I do not lie. If you are a man who truly wants a deep relationship with a large woman. A relationship based on traditional values and not sex, then I am the woman for you. I have canceled my subscription so I thought I would put out a final note about who I am. I live in Prince George British Columbia, and seek a man nearby or someone willing to move here. Do not ask me for sex...cybersex, phone sex or kinky sex. If we were to find love then I give completely but I am not into sex just for the sake of having sex. But, here is the contradiction, I do have a raunchy sense of humor. I am a very happy woman and would like to find a happy man, who is traditional in the way he treats women. If you are a kind, happy man, please send me an email before my subscription expires.
Relationship first, sex later...maybe Posted on Mar 29, 2007 at 02:21 AM
Do men understand the difference between sex and a relationship? I can not count the number of guys who want to talk dirty the first time you talk. Or better still the ones who think you should take your profile off the site and live happily ever after, after 10 minutes on IM. A relationship is where 2 people communicate about everything. Share their lives, get to know one another, and decide that there is chemistry between them. I had been married for 18 years, I know how to commit and I am looking for someone who also knows what commitment means. There are many people, men and women, who are looking for sex, wouldn't it be easier to be honest both with yourself and the other person, and contact only those that state that's what they are seeking. Why waste my time trying to talk about sex when I say directly that I am seeking a long term relationship? I am searching for a man who likes to talk and can carry on an intelligent conversation. A man who is affectionate and knows that does not just mean sex, but true intimacy. A man who can truly put a woman first. A man who can change out of his sweats when he leaves the house and knows how to brush his teeth and where to get a haircut. He does not have to be rich, or handsome but he does need to be happy and have the desire to share a happy life. I am a very straightforward woman with an incredible sense of humor. When I find the right man I commit fully. I know there are men seeking the same in a woman. If you are a man seeking a true lasting realationship with a large woman, drop me a note.
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My New Motto Posted on Mar 01, 2007 at 12:44 AM
I have adopted a new motto: Grow Up ..... I tried that and it didn't work for me! lol
Attention Ladies Posted on Feb 21, 2007 at 04:47 PM
When you are chatting with a man and he suddenly disappears i.e. to check laundry, because it's late or any other lame excuse and he is suddenly gone without another word...he is cheating on somebody. There is no reason for anyone not to take a few moments to say goodbye properly. Unfortunately I have also spoken to a lot of women who don't get it. They honestly think they are they ONLY one, and that this man they are talking to actually has to leave that suddenly to "check his laundry". He is leaving that fast because he is hiding these messages from his wife or girlfriend. I sure don't want to be the other won man in someones relationship. Come on every one, just be honest.
40 Year Old Virgin meets Mrs. Robinson Posted on Feb 19, 2007 at 04:19 PM
I have been approached by all different kinds on this site. Some of you (you know who you are) are awesome!!! I'm so happy to know you. Others,(you also know who you are)well, I just can't get over it. The things people say to a stranger. Do you really think people will respond to your smut? There are many sites devoted to kinky stuff there is no need to try your dirty deeds here. Fortunately I am very self confident, I don't shock easily and have the skills to deal with this, I feel for those who can't. However I can't help thinking how refreshing it would be to start from scratch. To talk to someone who doesn't have their mind cluttered with the kink, and who is open to learning how to treat a lady like a lady. I know there are some good men left out there.I would love to hear from you. But if you are only seeking sex, cyber sex, kinky sex, and more sex try one of the sites where the women are seeking the same things. 40 year old virgin? Maybe not. Mrs.Robinson, well you never know. But when a lady is searching for a relationship, and states this in her profile, she does not want inappropriate attention, and the 40 year old virgin starts to look pretty good.
Challenge to all the men...& women Posted on Feb 13, 2007 at 09:42 PM
It seems there are still a few people who really need help to feel special on Valentines day. Here is the challenge; email at least 6 members of the opposite sex and wish them a happy valentines day. It will make them feel good and you will feel good having done it. Happy Valentines day everyone!!!
Good Day Posted on Feb 06, 2007 at 01:26 PM
Hi everyone, hope you are all having a good day. Mine is moving forward in a positive manner. I have been working diligently at getting a group going, I haven't had much input from this site but I have from other sources. The need for positive attitude and direction is drawing much interest. I'm heading out into my community with this and the response is awesome! Anyone out there who wants to give me some hints on making this work online, your input is welcome! Come smile with me! Laura :-)
I'm coming Posted on Feb 05, 2007 at 01:57 PM
first of all...made you look, lol I have decided on going ahead with my group. I have been happier than ever before even with some challenges present in my life. I enjoy sharing this with others and it seems there are many like me who are seeking happiness and contentment in their lives. I am open to any suggestions, quotes, comments etc. towards getting this thing going. I have been working on the details and logistics. I also want to compile a list of songs that me you feel good, songs with happy lyrics etc. let me know the title and artist and I will check it out. This is an open invitation to everyone to share their opinions, and to look forward to joining once it's "official" CHEERS ALL
Positively Me Posted on Feb 02, 2007 at 11:06 AM
I have been on my quest for happiness for just over a month now. It has taken me to some new highs and of course some lows. I have managed to work through the negatives and come out stonger and yes, happier. I am feeling GREAT, so great in fact I am going to start a group of people who are comitted to being positive and happy! Often we know that we want happiness but we just don't know how to go about achieving it. With a change in our outlook and learning to immerse ourself in a positive attitude, we can do it!!! Have a great day!!!
I am officially available Posted on Feb 01, 2007 at 12:25 AM
I have changed my profile to reflect that I am looking for a man who knows how to treat a woman right. I have been playing it safe and just looking for friends up until now, but I really want to find the right man. If you love big woman and want one loyal relationship where we can treat one another like the most important part of each others lives, send me a note
The funny thing about sex Posted on Jan 31, 2007 at 03:15 PM
Men and women seem to have such different outlooks on sex. Some of the blogs express sex as a persons main interest others aren't interested at all. Isn't easiest just to state what you want. If all you want is sex then why waste time with those who don't, if you want a relationship with sex coming later, say so. If you do not want to enter into a sexual relationship at all say so. It sounds like people feel that this is a right or wrong issue, it isn't, it is personal choice. When you join a site like this you are going to come across people with all different needs. Addressing those needs honestly will keep misunderstandings and hard feelings from forming. Tell me what you want so I can decide if we have similar needs.