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Posted on Fri, Apr 14, 2006 13:14

How can it be so hard to find men who get past the weight and see the wealth of what is there in us as people. It saddens me that we can be separated out like this. Most of us have had to become even better people because of the obstacles others have thrown at us due to the weight. It will either make or break you! I can't tell you how many times people have asked if I'm seeing anyone and whether I am or am not they will look me up and down as if to say "noone would want her" The community I live in has alot of unfaithfulness, partying and the highest divorce rate in the U.S. Alot of the men here are very shallow and it has done a number on how we view ourselves. It doesn't just go one way though, as the thin women are just as used and then tossed aside. From where I sit, it seems to good to be true that there are really men out there that can love us. I could use some words of encouragement.

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Posted on Sun, Apr 30, 2006 21:40

I've seen strong, lasting relationships that last till death. Hang on, you'll find one, if its to be.


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Posted on Sun, Apr 30, 2006 20:09

I'll bet that you're a very nice woman, you are certainly very attractive. One thing though, I think you should worry far less about how others see you. Until you see the attractive, very pretty woman you certainly look to be then nobody else is going to see past what you see as faults in your appearance. Personally, from the photo, I don't think that you're too big. I think you're beautiful and any man would be thrilled to be around such an attractive woman. We all exude an aura and yours needs to be one of confidance of course that confidence will need to be tempered with good sense.


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Posted on Sun, Apr 30, 2006 17:51

You are beautiful and anyone that doesn't recognize that is crazy... You obviously live in the wrong place. Not all guys are that stupid... their is someone out their for you. I hope you find him, good luck.


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