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eclecticlady
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Posted on Tue, May 23, 2006 09:29

ok people...i'v been with this sight twice now. so i'm looking for some feed back here. are there any real guys on this sight who aren't on it for the sex and other freaky stuff "they think" most bbw ladies arelooking for here? damn!! i'm flooded with you guys. then again maybe i'm just on the wrong sight after all. i find it hard to understand that in all of the baltimore md. area there isn't at least one[normal] man around my age who looking for what i'm looking for also. come on ladies help a girl out will ya... i'm still new to the area so if your looking to add some new [straight] bbw friends to your list hollar back will ya... ?? ~~M


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Posted on Sat, Jul 21, 2007 07:41

I was never normal. Actually I had super human powers. But then my therapist took them away...lol


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Posted on Sat, Jul 21, 2007 05:52

Yes I must agree with what the point that the Ladies are making , but then most of the sort of Men that they seem to go for are good looking and not only Know it but use this fact to play about and then when they have got what they want skip to the next Woman . Surely it would be better to choose a Partner on Personality and Character rather than just Looks ,After all if a Man shows understanding ,and patience and is willing to make a great effort to please you and make you Happy , then surely he is worth giving a chance to whatever he Looks like . (Petersh55)


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Posted on Mon, Jul 16, 2007 11:31

Re: bizzle49 write: DAYUM! having a good guy rep is sure a burden to carry lol...all I read about is the good girl bad guy syndrome...hmm maybe I have to go caveman and drag some woman about by her hair...unless she'd like that lol

Don't do it Bizzle! PLEASE, Put down the club!!


In your rocking-chair, by your window dreaming, shall you long, alone. In your rocking-chair, by your window, shall you dream such happiness as you may never feel. –Theodore Dreiser

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Posted on Sun, Jul 15, 2007 06:54

I totally agree with you petale46. We a larger size due to whatever reason, heredity, nature or any reason, maybe we just like being larger. Good for us, that does not make us weak, needy,easy or appreciative of any attention from any thing that might come alone and throw us a bone. Speaking for myself, I've been larger all my life, heredity and being molested by a pervert as a 12 year old. Having him whisper in my ear that his wife was a fat pig and I was stunning. Now part of me is larger to "protect" myself from that sort of pervert. I've been loved deeply by my ex and a LTR for 8 years. I know how to love, I know what I want from a relationship and I've thrown many men to the curb - gently... I have yet to define "normal" I'm not sure there is a one definition. I strongly believe that we are all "normal" in our own unique way. That lends itself to one definition per person... if you get my drift. We all have out benchmarks, go for it. If we find it great, if not then treat yourself, always, as you would have someone treat you. That's my golden rule Natalie ***************** Re: petale46 write: Unfortunately, some men think that because BBW are not the first pick for most men, we are not as choosy when selecting a partner. In their twisted mind, we'll just be so thankful for the attention that we'll grab the first man who offers. They think we are crushed with low self esteem and so desperate that we'll believe anything they say. They are just having fun and don't care their fun is at someone else's expense. I said some men... not all of them. Some are nice!! They have strong feminine sides...


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Posted on Mon, Mar 19, 2007 11:14

DAYUM! having a good guy rep is sure a burden to carry lol...all I read about is the good girl bad guy syndrome...hmm maybe I have to go caveman and drag some woman about by her hair...unless she'd like that lol


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Posted on Sun, Mar 18, 2007 19:27

You sound like you may just be a decent man !!!! I like that !


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Posted on Sat, Mar 17, 2007 22:18

no no no no no my darling AmuseME I said I was FAR from normal but still a nice guy. I still want to revert to a serial pie thrower though...guess it's time for more therapy


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Posted on Fri, Mar 16, 2007 12:19

BIZZLE IS NORMAL?? SAY IT ISN'T SO!!! THAT'S IT I AM DONE! lol ;-)


In your rocking-chair, by your window dreaming, shall you long, alone. In your rocking-chair, by your window, shall you dream such happiness as you may never feel. –Theodore Dreiser

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Posted on Fri, Mar 16, 2007 11:16

i think the majority of guys are. i sure hope i'm wrong. and if they are legit, they'll have to keep on winking to let me know they're serious and not trying to use me for something there's no way on earth gonna get.


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Posted on Wed, Mar 14, 2007 13:12

I would have to say no...with the exception of Bizzle of course :-)


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Posted on Tue, Mar 13, 2007 14:49

here's the short answer.....nope


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Posted on Tue, Mar 13, 2007 12:56

well, I'm far from normal but I still think that I'm a nice guy, just ask my parole officer lol


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Posted on Tue, Mar 13, 2007 12:39

Short answer .... NO! Would love to be proved wrong though!


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Posted on Mon, Mar 12, 2007 12:24

I just found it funny that someone would put NORMAL and MEN in the same sentence .


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Posted on Thu, Aug 03, 2006 17:32

Well, sadly I have to say, I have given up on the fairy-tale ending also. I enjoy reading the blogs and reading what everyone says, and sometimes adding my own comments, but I have found the men on these sights are looking to put more notches in their bedposts, and that's not what I'm looking for either. I do think that a good one comes along now and then, and I say CONGRATS to the lady who is lucky enough to meet him. Good Luck to all.


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Posted on Thu, Aug 03, 2006 13:36

Hi Ladies, I keep reading the same thing on here, the men are not serious, and that makes me mad. Don't stop reading yet because it is not you I am mad at, it is the men. I am new and have only sent out a few winks (and I did keep them in my area) but as of yet I have not gotten one responce. I am not a gold member but as I see it why should I if no women wink or atleast wink back. Sorry didn't mean to get on my soapbox but just hang in there cause i know at least one guy on this site wants more than sex. I want to add if anyone wants to chat let me know and if any ladies in my area want to get to know each other, let me know that too.


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Posted on Sat, Jun 17, 2006 07:23

Some people think guys that like bigger women are not normal, but usually not the ladies..lol !!!


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Posted on Fri, Jun 16, 2006 07:36

Hi I'm here over in the UK lol I've heard this on several occasions which is a shame as those idiots spoil it for us genuine guys looking for love. Keep going Mrs Right out there just try to avoid all those toads Happy hunting Johnyg


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Posted on Fri, Jun 16, 2006 04:40

I totally agree with all of u ladies!! I have really been turned off of internet dating b/c all it seems like is that they r interested in sex - which is NOT what I'm here for. I just want to meet a "normal" guy - who knew that would be so hard??


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