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allisoninchains
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Posted on Wed, Jun 14, 2006 23:08

Well from what I can see, you all are beautiful women and we need to stick to our grounds as to what we want in men. We don't have to settle for the men that just want to use us. They can go elsewhere to find buddies.


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Posted on Mon, Jun 12, 2006 14:14

OK Ladies, Most good men will do what ever it takes to get and keep that special someone. Which means that time and distance doesn???t matter. Imagine your perfect someone but the live in California and you???re in Rhode Island. Love would be lost if you didn???t really attempted to see if it was real. I guess what I am trying to say is that, I myself and maybe a handful of other men will do what ever it takes to obtain what is right for him. Yes this is an invitation to say hello ladies?????? For all the love that is squandered, I will be there to pick up the pieces!!!!


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Posted on Fri, Jun 09, 2006 11:23

After reading all of these I am convinced that this was a bad idea to make friends locally. I just moved to this area and was hoping to make friends locally but I don???t think this will be it. Once my 3 months is up I will be outta here! I was told by my friend that there is a site specifically aimed at people looking to ???hook up??? so I assumed by not joining that site that would meet just regular people looking for friends first and whatever came with it later. Boy was I wrong about that lol. Good luck to all! I still have about 6 weeks left on here so I will be around a bit longer. Ciao 4 now!!!


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Posted on Fri, Jun 09, 2006 10:34

Dear "Eclectic", I don't know...you tell me! I regularly have the same problem that you do on here. Also, anytime that I'm on I get messages almost immediately, but the problem is that they are all far away! I am looking for a man who wants a soulmate. Looks are not important. He can be big and beautiful, the teddy bear type. Just has to be real. Not some clown looking for a quick roll in the hay! You and I are both wonderful women with a lot to offer. How ABOUT it guys...?!!!!!


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Posted on Wed, Jun 07, 2006 22:58

whats conciderd normal ? : )


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Posted on Sat, Jun 03, 2006 23:01

Hello ladies, I so understand what your saying. I don't thtink its all about that. I believe theres more honest and true romantic guys here then there are idiots looking for the bootycall or hit and quit. Heres something to think about, Remember when this was the norm, Breakfast in bed. Make your sweetheart's favorite meal or take your sweetheart out for a special dinner. Send your love flowers at work. If you are on a tight budget, give just one single hand-delivered flower. Remember, it was the thought not the quantity. Remember doing the unexpected! Drive across town to take your love out for lunch. Send a gift basket of indulgent items. Writing "I Love You" on the pillowcase. OK Poetry is traditional even if it didn???t rhyme. Remember making up your own poems or buying the little book of love poems that she could read and think of you? What ever happened to Dedicating a favorite song to your Love on a radio show that she will be listening to? Writing "I Love You" in shaving cream on the mirror? Ya feel me? When your sweetheart was going to be away from you for awhile , remember when you used to get several I love you, or thinking of you cards and put them in different places in her luggage, and You would sequence them with ???Open Me??? on certain days to create some suspense.


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Posted on Fri, Jun 02, 2006 20:55

I have to agree ladies... I maybe a big girl, but I am not a desperate girl. And all you guys out there who just want to cyber or phone then please rethink your motives. PS ladies I have been seeing a gent from this sight for 7 months and YES it is long distance thing for rigt now, but right now it is working out great and WE are making a go at it and he has been wonderful (I can be a bit girly and needy:))


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Posted on Mon, May 29, 2006 19:02

WELL, I HAVE BEEN ON THE SITE FOR OVER A YEAR AND WHEN FIRST MEETING MEN, THEY ALL SEEM TO BE VERY NICE AND HONEST AND ALL THAT THEY THINK WE WANT TO HEAR....AND SOME OF THEM JUST WANT TO TALK DIRTY AND HAVE PHONE SEX..... BUT, I HAVE YET TO FIND ONE THAT SAYS WHAT THEY MEAN AND MEAN WHAT THEY SAY.... I HAVE CORRESPONDED AND TALKED ON THE PHONE WITH NUMEROUS MEN AND WE HIT IT OFF FAMOUSLY, BUT WHEN IT COMES TO ACTUALLY MEETING AND STARTING SOME KIND OF FRIENDSHIP, ETC....THEY DISAPPEAR. IT MAKES ME WONDER WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME. I JUST WANT TO HAVE SOME COMPANIONSHIP AND SEE WHERE IT GOES FROM THERE. I ALSO FIND THAT THE MEN RIGHT AWAY GET CARRIED AWAY AND SAY DUMB THINGS LIKE I LOVE YOU BEFORE YOU HAVE EVEN MET THEM. THEN THEY ARE THE ONES THAT DISAPPEAR. WHAT IS THAT ALL ABOUT.....SOMEONE PLEASE EXPLAIN THIS TO ME....HAS ANYONE ELSE EXPERIENCED THIS....


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Posted on Mon, May 29, 2006 08:10

I have to admit to you that I feel the same way that you do. I think that men on this site think just because we are big people that means that all we are is good for a fling or for just to use as toys.


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Posted on Mon, May 29, 2006 02:07

I would love to chat with anyone who wants friends... *smiles*


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Posted on Thu, May 25, 2006 01:20

I think there are some bad apples in every barrel. I have met a few real jerks on here but the majority of men I've met have been nice guys. Nothing has come of anything as of yet but I have met some really nice people that I enjoy corresponding with.


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