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divadawg001
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Posted on Fri, Mar 31, 2006 07:54

This whole concept of BBW is so new to me. Big Beautiful Woman. Hell, I just learned about 10-months ago that term is what apparently describes me. Who knew? Apparently, a whole lot of folks. Is this a badge of honor? Is it a label of shame? What other body type is labeled like that? One has to first identify themself as a BBW to someone straight out of the gate, almost as if it's a sentence - or requirement - or fetish. Hi, my name is Suzy and I'm a SAB (skinny @$$ beauty). No, never seen that before.

Trying to search for BBW sites is not difficult. There are so many, it makes your head swim - for every lifestyle imaginable. Now, I am just a simple lady. I am looking for a simple, drama-free man to share my life with. Apparently this is too much to ask. I am really hoping to find a man that's honest (with honesty, comes integrity); ain't afraid to work (there are no allergy shots for that ailment); has a love of family; a fear and reverence of God; and comfortable in his own skin. Okay, fine - funny and able to hold a conversation and/or read above a sixth-grade level helps, too! =) But really, am I asking too much? Is there a s-i-n-g-l-e, preferably black male in beautiful, crime-free (HA HA) Central, FL that can step to the plate?

Is that any different than what most single people want to find? Or must the categorial BBW meet some other guidelines; pass some other tests before coming to the fore front?

HOLLA!



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Posted on Wed, Sep 13, 2006 08:32

I find it interesting that in the midst of your pondering about the meaning of labels for body characteristics you then say the following,

"Is there a s-i-n-g-l-e, preferably black male in..."

You yourself have made a special request for a physical characteristic, why is it so hard to fathom that other people have physical preferences as well?



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Posted on Tue, Sep 12, 2006 15:44

I think that the term BBW is what you make of it. Some do consider it a fetish(I hate them that do). some consider it an honor. some seem to consider it a shame too. I would have to agree with you that there was no reason to start this term in the first place. To me women are beautiful and y'all are just the larger ones. I also wonder about BHM when I was young I was just the fat guy.lol



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Posted on Sat, Apr 08, 2006 22:00

Well... I'm not a Balding Balless Whimp, or a Belching Boyish Weakling, or a Booger Bearing Weasel... so... I guess I'll go with Venivici's version of BBW ..... *SMILE*



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Posted on Wed, Apr 05, 2006 18:32

B= means big -That's accurate

B= means beautiful -Alrighty then.

W= is woman -Hope so.

Not too shabby of a label.



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Posted on Wed, Apr 05, 2006 17:11

Hmmm....yeah....I know just what you mean, gurl ! ! ! ! !

LOLOL



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