So I'm at a point in my life where I'm looking back at my sex life and wondering if this is a good as it gets. I feel so grey and cotton undies, when there is vibrancy and an sexy lingerie smoldering inside. But how to get it out? I'd like to experiment more, try different ways to express my sexual self, but am not willing to return to my youth of unfulfilling (not to mention unsafe) one night stands.Yet who knows when the next potentially semi-serious relationship will come along, providing a safe place to play. Self pleasure can only go so far.