I attended a friend's wedding the other day and it was beautiful. Only few people were invited because the couple wanted to keep it as simple and solemn as possible. Only those who were very close to them were invited to witness the union. They did the right thing. The wedding was pure perfection. Everyone cried and laughed and cheered. We had a great time.
I'm so happy for my friend, Lily because finally she has found the love that she's been praying for. She must have prayed harder than me more...
I attended a friend's wedding the other day and it was beautiful. Only few people were invited because the couple wanted to keep it as simple and solemn as possible. Only those who were very close to them were invited to witness the union. They did the right thing. The wedding was pure perfection. Everyone cried and laughed and cheered. We had a great time.
I'm so happy for my friend, Lily because finally she has found the love that she's been praying for. She must have prayed harder than me because until now I'm still loveless.
Why is it so hard to find love? Everyone I know is settling down and starting to raise a family. They're all so happy and contented. I know I shouldn't whine because I've met some really nice guys over the years whom I've turned down for some unknown reasons. But there is just no spark. I don't want to settle with anyone just because he's the only one available. Am I making a big mistake here? Will I end up being all alone because I waited too long for Mr.Right? Sigh.
Despite my non-existent love life, I'm still happy for Lily. I'm happy that love still works for other people.
I use to think that love would find me. Then I realized that love didn't have my number so I put myself out there. I haven't found love yet, but I am having fun looking for it.
I totally agree with SweetC. I left a marraige after 15 years, and it was the hardest thing I have ever done in my whole life, including raising kids. (but that's a close second...) I only did it because there was no love left in that house; I didn't even feel open to love or to even WANT it. Now, I do. I would like to find someone to love, but I know it has to be right. I have to be ready for it, and "open" to it. I'm not... Yet.... I think that someitmes people (men AND women) are re more...
I totally agree with SweetC. I left a marraige after 15 years, and it was the hardest thing I have ever done in my whole life, including raising kids. (but that's a close second...) I only did it because there was no love left in that house; I didn't even feel open to love or to even WANT it. Now, I do. I would like to find someone to love, but I know it has to be right. I have to be ready for it, and "open" to it. I'm not... Yet.... I think that someitmes people (men AND women) are ready for love, but that we are angry b/c we haven't found it or because it has betrayed us in the past, whether or not we realize it. That can sometimes hinder the process. I know for me, it's a big hurdle I will have to overcome, so I can love again. You, though...you just have to be open. That's all. It will come.
Stop looking. I'm on this site like you, but, do you really expect to meet someone this way? I'll try anything once, but know this, when it is your turn to love, you'll know. Sometimes sitting still, and letting go helps. I was married almost 30 years, letting go (of the relationship) was one of the best things that ever happened to me, sometimes letting go, and giving it to God helps. Be Patient, let Love come to you.
Stop looking. I'm on this site like you, but, do you really expect to meet someone this way? I'll try anything once, but know this, when it is your turn to love, you'll know. Sometimes sitting still, and letting go helps. I was married almost 30 years, letting go (of the relationship) was one of the best things that ever happened to me, sometimes letting go, and giving it to God helps. Be Patient, let Love come to you.
Thanks sweet! I appreciate the advice. I'll try anything just to find love. I tried waiting for it, but it was taking so long to find me. But maybe I just to be more patient. Good luck to you, too. :)
Stop looking. I'm on this site like you, but, do you really expect to meet someone this way? I'll try anything once, but know this, when it is your turn to love, you'll know. Sometimes sitting still, and letting go helps. I was married almost 30 years, letting go (of the relationship) was one of the best things that ever happened to me, sometimes letting go, and giving it to God helps. Be Patient, let Love come to you.
