Okay ladies this is my take on the subject. I have been a bbw almost all of my life. I have gotten lots of attention but only when I felt pretty. I think it has to do with how we present ourselves! I recently got out of a 13 year abusive relationship and when I started going out with my friends I was depressed and matronly, yep no attention. As time went by I began to feel like myself again and dress and feel sexy. Yep tons of attention, It's how you feel!!! So stop letting a few mentally ill people who are labeled "fat haters" ruin your perfeectly beautiful life. WE ARE BEAUTIFUL
Okay ladies this is my take on the subject. I have been a bbw almost all of my life. I have gotten lots of attention but only when I felt pretty. I think it has to do with how we present ourselves! I recently got out of a 13 year abusive relationship and when I started going out with my friends I was depressed and matronly, yep no attention. As time went by I began to feel like myself again and dress and feel sexy. Yep tons of attention, It's how you feel!!! So stop letting a few mentally ill people who are labeled "fat haters" ruin your perfeectly beautiful life. WE ARE BEAUTIFUL
I get more phone numbers given to me than my "skinnier" g/f's. I personally think that men DO like to be seen with a BBW. i think that if u r being cheated on or feel that he is too ashamed of u becasue of your weight status. think AGAIN! it might be because your the ones insecure and then project that type of personality. if so than even I a BBW wouldn't want to be seen with you either.Men cheat becaue they want to always see if there is someone better out there. it dosent matter if au r skinny or not. Many skinny woman get cheated on too. Project a better self image and you will find a man that is PROUD to show you off.
I get more phone numbers given to me than my "skinnier" g/f's. I personally think that men DO like to be seen with a BBW. i think that if u r being cheated on or feel that he is too ashamed of u becasue of your weight status. think AGAIN! it might be because your the ones insecure and then project that type of personality. if so than even I a BBW wouldn't want to be seen with you either.Men cheat becaue they want to always see if there is someone better out there. it dosent matter if au r skinny or not. Many skinny woman get cheated on too. Project a better self image and you will find a man that is PROUD to show you off.
I've been through all these issues with men, been cheated on with thin woman, been treated like my opinion has no worth, like I am hideous to be seen with in public...but after all that abuse I say, Its not about you Buddy, Its about me and I'm hot and sweet I deserve to be treated like a queen, and I do not settle for less!
I've been through all these issues with men, been cheated on with thin woman, been treated like my opinion has no worth, like I am hideous to be seen with in public...but after all that abuse I say, Its not about you Buddy, Its about me and I'm hot and sweet I deserve to be treated like a queen, and I do not settle for less!
hmmm well i my self i am new here and i know iam probaly the youngest on here. This site actualy poped up as a pop up one day so i figured why the hell not
and yes i love voluptious curvy women hmm i was with one for 5 years anyways
i think i have just always been atracted to bbw's its just what i find attractive i guess i realy dont know how to explain it
except a curvy female is more fun to hold than a skinny one :)
hmmm well i my self i am new here and i know iam probaly the youngest on here. This site actualy poped up as a pop up one day so i figured why the hell not and yes i love voluptious curvy women hmm i was with one for 5 years anyways i think i have just always been atracted to bbw's its just what i find attractive i guess i realy dont know how to explain it except a curvy female is more fun to hold than a skinny one :)
cally.. i would love to be seen with you. you have such a pretty face. i would give that smile. let every one know you were my girl. you are very pretty.
cally.. i would love to be seen with you. you have such a pretty face. i would give that smile. let every one know you were my girl. you are very pretty.
IF a man wants to be with a BBW then he will not mind being seen with one.
I know we do not live in a perfect world.
The bulk of how people perceive you, is mostly how you perceive yourself.
I met a women at curves, she is gorgeous and feels all men will only be with you until something better walks their way.
This is the wrong attitude.
I had a husband and a good marriage for 20 years, I was large the entire time, he adored me, he has since passed on to a better place, but I believe there are others out there like him.
I have been on this site for 2 years. I have met many men, and none where afraid to be seen with me.
NO second soul mate yet, however great friendships have been formed.
To all you big girls.. and the thin ones... Realize there will always be people that like you, just as there will be people who find fault.
MOST IMPORTANT - YOU REALLY NEED TO LOVE YOURSELF>>> I KNOW I DO>
IF a man wants to be with a BBW then he will not mind being seen with one. I know we do not live in a perfect world. The bulk of how people perceive you, is mostly how you perceive yourself. I met a women at curves, she is gorgeous and feels all men will only be with you until something better walks their way. This is the wrong attitude. I had a husband and a good marriage for 20 years, I was large the entire time, he adored me, he has since passed on to a better place, but I believe there are others out there like him. I have been on this site for 2 years. I have met many men, and none where afraid to be seen with me. NO second soul mate yet, however great friendships have been formed. To all you big girls.. and the thin ones... Realize there will always be people that like you, just as there will be people who find fault. MOST IMPORTANT - YOU REALLY NEED TO LOVE YOURSELF>>> I KNOW I DO>
Heck YEAH!!! I have had dates who wanted to take me everywhere on a first or second date, including to meet the family! I think it is very true that confidence is a BIG attraction for guys...at least that is what I have found. I used to feel bad about the way I looked, but in the past 10 years, I have learned to love & accept ALL OF ME. I definitely didn't have the dates then that I have now, even though I am older than I was back then. Feeling good about yourself and confident is, by far, the biggest turn-ons for men as many of them have told me so. If the guys don't feel proud while out with a BBW, then they need ditched & quick! They aren't worth your time. Know that you are special & deserve to be treated as such.....you are a beautiful package & deserve a man that also sees this in you.
Heck YEAH!!! I have had dates who wanted to take me everywhere on a first or second date, including to meet the family! I think it is very true that confidence is a BIG attraction for guys...at least that is what I have found. I used to feel bad about the way I looked, but in the past 10 years, I have learned to love & accept ALL OF ME. I definitely didn't have the dates then that I have now, even though I am older than I was back then. Feeling good about yourself and confident is, by far, the biggest turn-ons for men as many of them have told me so. If the guys don't feel proud while out with a BBW, then they need ditched & quick! They aren't worth your time. Know that you are special & deserve to be treated as such.....you are a beautiful package & deserve a man that also sees this in you.
I have to be honest. I was never overweight until college and I always had men interested in me. When I began gaining weight about five years ago, I noticed that men were interested in my friends, but not me. Now it is still very difficult for me to believe that a man could be attracted to me the way I am, just because I remember how it was when I was thinner.
I am hoping that by visiting this site and hearing the empowering messages from all of you strong, confident women that I will view myself as gorgeous no matter what. It's too bad that there weren't places for BBW's to socialize where I live, because I could use the support!
I have to be honest. I was never overweight until college and I always had men interested in me. When I began gaining weight about five years ago, I noticed that men were interested in my friends, but not me. Now it is still very difficult for me to believe that a man could be attracted to me the way I am, just because I remember how it was when I was thinner. I am hoping that by visiting this site and hearing the empowering messages from all of you strong, confident women that I will view myself as gorgeous no matter what. It's too bad that there weren't places for BBW's to socialize where I live, because I could use the support!
Have pride in yourself and ALWAYS have self confidence. You are who you are. If a guy says he loves you then he needs to love you for who you are inside and out. If he only wants to be with you behind closed doors then kick him to the curb. There are always more fish in the sea.
Have pride in yourself and ALWAYS have self confidence. You are who you are. If a guy says he loves you then he needs to love you for who you are inside and out. If he only wants to be with you behind closed doors then kick him to the curb. There are always more fish in the sea.
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Iam a bbw and if it is true that men want to be with bbws then why do i get told from men that no they can't date me they can only be with me at home. We bbws need love and a special person in our life as well as the skinny ones. Been told many times for the closet lovers that bbws are usually more true with their feelings and more committed to a relationship but you read profile to try and send messages and honestly they all ask for average ppl and that DOES NOT MEAN BBWS because we are not average body
Hi Iam a bbw and if it is true that men want to be with bbws then why do i get told from men that no they can't date me they can only be with me at home. We bbws need love and a special person in our life as well as the skinny ones. Been told many times for the closet lovers that bbws are usually more true with their feelings and more committed to a relationship but you read profile to try and send messages and honestly they all ask for average ppl and that DOES NOT MEAN BBWS because we are not average body
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I have been "in" with guys until I worked out the not being seen in public. Yes I too am better than that. I have just stopped seeing a guy who wanted me for my brains - his reason for contacting me(another issue as a lot of men are intimidated by intelligent women) Batting average not good bbw and show smart. Anyway he was happy to go out for a meal at a restaurant with me until the night last week when we ran into an ex colleague he had not and would not see for another decade. I then became invisible he ignored the fact I was standing beside him, no introduction even as a friend. Needless to say he is now history, I haven't got the chance to tell him as he hasn't been back....bloody coward stole my thunder it has now fizzled email just doesn't have the same impact.
Hi I have been "in" with guys until I worked out the not being seen in public. Yes I too am better than that. I have just stopped seeing a guy who wanted me for my brains - his reason for contacting me(another issue as a lot of men are intimidated by intelligent women) Batting average not good bbw and show smart. Anyway he was happy to go out for a meal at a restaurant with me until the night last week when we ran into an ex colleague he had not and would not see for another decade. I then became invisible he ignored the fact I was standing beside him, no introduction even as a friend. Needless to say he is now history, I haven't got the chance to tell him as he hasn't been back....bloody coward stole my thunder it has now fizzled email just doesn't have the same impact.
Heck yeah I would be and have been proud to be seen with BBWs. Otherwise, why be with her. Besides, what do I care what someone thinks who's only interested in flat butts and boney hips. They don't get it.
Heck yeah I would be and have been proud to be seen with BBWs. Otherwise, why be with her. Besides, what do I care what someone thinks who's only interested in flat butts and boney hips. They don't get it.
Any guy who isn't willing to be seen with me doesn't deserve me!!
But my experience is there are a lot of closet bbw-lovers out there . . . I think our society puts so much pressure on both sexes to be thin -- men and women. We are supposed to be thin and have thin partners. So often I hear of men who like bbw's but wish they were more confident in themselves.
I have experienced the opposite extreme also, where a man was ONLY attracted to me because of my size and really didn't care about my character or personality.
Any guy who isn't willing to be seen with me doesn't deserve me!! But my experience is there are a lot of closet bbw-lovers out there . . . I think our society puts so much pressure on both sexes to be thin -- men and women. We are supposed to be thin and have thin partners. So often I hear of men who like bbw's but wish they were more confident in themselves. I have experienced the opposite extreme also, where a man was ONLY attracted to me because of my size and really didn't care about my character or personality.
Hi, my wife was a large woman, and I loved it...she had surgery to be thinner and more attractive?? well she found out she is now 110 lbs. Her face is no longer tight or is anything else..I married her because she was large. Now skinny... She was ashamed of seeing herself naked when heavy and now she lost all the weight?? Wont look in the mirror or want to be naked in front of me or in front of the mirror....dave
Hi, my wife was a large woman, and I loved it...she had surgery to be thinner and more attractive?? well she found out she is now 110 lbs. Her face is no longer tight or is anything else..I married her because she was large. Now skinny... She was ashamed of seeing herself naked when heavy and now she lost all the weight?? Wont look in the mirror or want to be naked in front of me or in front of the mirror....dave
When I met my wife 20 years ago, she was a "big girl". Up to & including today, tomorrow and forever, it has NEVER occurred to me what other people think. You see, I'm 5'1" (she is 3 inches taller than me) & as anyone who is "different" can tell you, there are 2 choices..1 is to hide away from the world, ashamed of who you are, & the 2nd one is to say "I don't give a toss what you think, here I am!" Anyone with a problem? Well, that is THEIR issue, not ours. We opted for the 2nd one. As for the person who said something about being in the military & confidence, you are 100% correct...I was in the R.A.F. for 9 years.
When I met my wife 20 years ago, she was a "big girl". Up to & including today, tomorrow and forever, it has NEVER occurred to me what other people think. You see, I'm 5'1" (she is 3 inches taller than me) & as anyone who is "different" can tell you, there are 2 choices..1 is to hide away from the world, ashamed of who you are, & the 2nd one is to say "I don't give a toss what you think, here I am!" Anyone with a problem? Well, that is THEIR issue, not ours. We opted for the 2nd one. As for the person who said something about being in the military & confidence, you are 100% correct...I was in the R.A.F. for 9 years.
