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Posted on Fri, May 05, 2006 19:48

Ok - here I go ... I'm trying to find out what it takes to get an honest to god response from a man who lives within an 2 hour drive of me. :-) I think I'm a great person ... good heart, intelligent, not totally worked over by the ugly tree, have a steady job ... I've had a membership (paying) on here for over a year now and in that time have had one response that was worth my time. He turned out to be an amazing guy whose friendship I treasure, but WY is a looong way from TX! It seems that I get people who are looking to fulfill a fat fetish. Talk about making me feel like a freak! The others seem to have stumbled onto the wrong website. I actually had a guy tell me that he didn't like heavy women ... um ... hello ... it's called LARGEfriends.com Maybe I just needed to vent, but I wanted to see if any guys would actually tell me what they look for when responding to profiles. I have a pretty good description of me (at least I think) and I also have several photos posted. What gives?

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Posted on Sun, Nov 25, 2007 12:31

I was reading older blogs because of the holiday our newest blogs are slow. I found this and it hits home for a few of the questions out there now. I like what hustler has to say, it's the power of positive thinking and it puts the energy out there for a return. It's very "law of attraction" and the secret works this way too. Try it, he's right ! Nisi32132 Re: hustler write: hi there. i live in new york and i want to tell you something. RELAX! really, relax. there are men right under your nose, trust me. as long as you know exactly what you want in a man, i don't care if you have to write it down, but know what you want in a man. be exact!! i used to look here daily, with no results. when i did this,along with thinking how it would feel, i was in a different state of mind.i was relaxed and kind of hot, but at least i knew what i wanted. in a week, i started getting winks, then emails. now my damn cellphone is clogged with numbers and i get more emails from women from sites i haven't checked in a year. please try it. i want you to be cluttered with MEN!!! LOL.


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Posted on Wed, May 10, 2006 10:42

Responses on this site are slow... I have had quite a few but they trickle in slower than molasses. I think the problem is that many of the people you contacted might not pay any attention to people trying to contact them anymore... they glance at it and forget it because they are use to not getting much of a response or at lease the type of response they would like. I am actually using another site to git e-mail pals and dates... this I save for good conversation and advice from interesting people I would like to make friends with now. Although if the rite guy happens along this site I won't be complaining. Just hang in their and don't worry about it. Things take time.


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Posted on Mon, May 08, 2006 07:02

Pathseeker I have to say that I have run into the same issues you have. I find tons of local men, and a lot of them have been on recently, but get responses from them when I try to take the first step. I do have to say that I was pleasantly surprised last night and found myself in a really great chat with a guy from San Antonio who just happened to be online at the same time I was. I'm hoping I found a new friend! Good luck to you.


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Posted on Sun, May 07, 2006 19:07

sometimes my pretty lady, if you can see between the lines and arent afraid to read what the guy printed, you will save your self a lot of guess work and be able to eliminate the one that would be a waste of time.


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Posted on Sun, May 07, 2006 16:10

Are you serious about not getting any replies? Especially in Texas; are you a "shut-in" or somthing? You certainly look VERY attractive. I would think that one glimpse of your pretty smile (not to mention the rest) and all of the Texan men would be lining up at the door. Maybe I'm going to need to re-evaluate my opinion of Texans having good taste in women......


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Posted on Sun, May 07, 2006 15:21

Nice comment from Hustler. As far as this site I joined to hopefully meet someone local as I just moved and don't know anyone and was hoping to find someone to go do things with like dinner, movies etc. I was happy when I first searched and found quite a list of locals however once I paid to have access found that the majority of them had not logged on in over a month my hopes dashed out the window LOL. So far one local has looked at my profile and ignored my request for him to post what he is looking for in a match so don't think he and I will be doing dinner anytime soon LOL. I hope it works out for you, I don't plan on staying more than the 90 days I paid for. Have a great week! Ciao 4 now.


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Posted on Sun, May 07, 2006 02:10

hey i can relate myself.i was a paying member for a year and all i got was winks and 1 response .


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Posted on Sun, May 07, 2006 01:14

We're looking for a woman that won't turn the shilds up at full power when we try to learn more about you.


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Posted on Sat, May 06, 2006 21:20

I'll give it a shot. Someone had told me to put myself out there and make the first contact (which I have done) and that didn't seem to work. Thanks for responding!


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Posted on Sat, May 06, 2006 18:41

hi there. i live in new york and i want to tell you something. RELAX! really, relax. there are men right under your nose, trust me. as long as you know exactly what you want in a man, i don't care if you have to write it down, but know what you want in a man. be exact!! i used to look here daily, with no results. when i did this,along with thinking how it would feel, i was in a different state of mind.i was relaxed and kind of hot, but at least i knew what i wanted. in a week, i started getting winks, then emails. now my damn cellphone is clogged with numbers and i get more emails from women from sites i haven't checked in a year. please try it. i want you to be cluttered with MEN!!! LOL.


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