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BeautifulMaMa
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Posted on Tue, Aug 29, 2006 21:23

I was recently insulted by a man..go figure.. He stated.. I like full figured women, but when he seen my pic...not my full length pic either.. just my facial pic. he says or types to me that I was "to much woman 4 him!" WHATS UP WITH THAT?? HELP ME TO UNDERSTAND..IS THERE SOMETHING WRONG WITH ME THAT IM NOT SEEING.. HONESTLY


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Posted on Fri, Nov 23, 2007 06:41

Hi there, I have a theory that fits this scenario and I've been there many times, more than I care to think about. Not to mention that I have a thin friend who's been there also. Here's my theory: it's the Heinz 57 kinds theory. There are tons of brand names out there for different item, clothes, food,shoes etc., we all have our own taste and once we find the style,taste and fit we tend to not stray from out "brand" too much. I think this also applies to people. We find something, size,shape,personality that "fits". The second part of the is that we learn something about the Toad that insults us. We learn to identify his/her personality and cross that toad off our list of people we will deal with from now on. There are ways to say no in a polite way. If someone is insulting why bother with them at all? Just my 2.5 cents Nisi32132 Re: BeautifulMaMa write: I was recently insulted by a man..go figure.. He stated.. I like full figured women, but when he seen my pic...not my full length pic either.. just my facial pic. he says or types to me that I was "to much woman 4 him!" WHATS UP WITH THAT?? HELP ME TO UNDERSTAND..IS THERE SOMETHING WRONG WITH ME THAT IM NOT SEEING.. HONESTLY


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Posted on Tue, Nov 20, 2007 00:48

Yeah, unfortunately, sometimes those neural synapses fail to communicate. It tends to be a disease primarily affecting men with both poor cummunication skills and seriously warped ideas of women. It's ok, though. It's not a viral OR bacterial disease, only a psychological one! That means: the GOOD men out there have slim to no chance of being affected! (LOL!)


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Posted on Fri, Sep 08, 2006 13:49

Honey, what a JACKASS he is. Don't worry about him. He is obviously insecure. You are pretty and deserve better than that brain dead sob. Remember attitude is 90%


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Posted on Wed, Sep 06, 2006 21:32

Well He must be really stupid, because your very pretty. He need to get a life. Hope you find your right guy.


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Posted on Wed, Sep 06, 2006 16:57

Well i think your a very good looking woman!


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Posted on Sat, Sep 02, 2006 23:22

well I've sent my pic upon request and that was enough to have all further contacts cease and desist....and jeez I got that clump of spinach out from between my teeth too! why did i bother to buy a new toothbrush!! lol


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Posted on Fri, Sep 01, 2006 15:57

OK I may be giving away a man's secret here but check this out. There is an email being sent to guys on the net(I got one and don't know how they got my addy). Anyway, this email is about a class that will teach men how to get women to make the first move. One of the secrets they give away to get you to order is to find something on the woman's profile and say it is not for you. One example they gave is to tell them (ok watch this) that your weight is not right for them, or they don't like redheads, something like that. According to the people that is selling the book or whatever it is this is suppose to make you women so desperate to prove that you are right for this man that you cyber with them right then and there,or something like that. lol Guys I hope I didn't just give away your big thing. The only I am putting this here is that it sounds so stupid to me, and I hope to you.


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Posted on Fri, Sep 01, 2006 07:56

I would not worry about one comment, your have to kiss a lot of toads(and hope you don't get warts ;-)LOL) b-4 you find you prince! You are pretty and do have a nice smile.


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Posted on Fri, Sep 01, 2006 07:46

He probably just meant that you are too pretty for him. There are people (men as well as women) out there who simply do not have either the confidance, social, or intellectual skills to convey their thoughts (let alone their intent). Take the remark as a compliment.


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Posted on Thu, Aug 31, 2006 20:36

So what are you saying Covergirl??


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Posted on Thu, Aug 31, 2006 07:16

Hi BeautifulMama, If we went through life listening to every single person that had something negative to say we wouldn't get anywhere in life. You are indeed attractive and you know it considering your choice of Nickname ;) That's all that's important. Enjoy your time with people that enjoy you. Life is too short!


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Posted on Thu, Aug 31, 2006 07:16

Hi BeautifulMama, If we went through life listening to every single person that had something negative to say we wouldn't get anywhere in life. You are indeed attractive and you know it considering your choice of Nickname ;) That's all that's important. Enjoy your time with people that enjoy you. Life is too short!


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Posted on Thu, Aug 31, 2006 03:47

as well as being blind he must be insane, beauty is not just in a photo, but meeting the person behind the smile, and if your photo is anything to go on you are one wonderful lady--- kick A_H like that into touch xx


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Posted on Wed, Aug 30, 2006 20:56

Thanks to everyone who has responded to this, and thanks for the compliment on my smile. I was just taken back by that comment. I just wish that people would actually take a minute to think about what they are about to say. Seem like more and more people have came down with the gumball effect...WHAT EVER POPS IN THERE HEAD POPS OUT THERE MOUTH...LOL..go figure


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Posted on Wed, Aug 30, 2006 17:58

Some guys think honestly insults will get you to talk to them. That way they can try to do the make up thing. Others are just retarded, and i don't mean handicapped. I mean they just down right dumb.


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Posted on Wed, Aug 30, 2006 17:27

Nothing at all wrong with you BeautifulMaMa, but there was something wrong with that jerk you were chatting with.


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Posted on Wed, Aug 30, 2006 16:13

There is nothing wrong with you, you are a very attractive woman. Just remember there are jerks out there no matter where you go


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