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Posted on Thu, Feb 25, 2010 03:58

Ok Y'all, I knew it was too good to be true... finding a handsome young energetic guy that wasn't ashamed to be seen with me in public or give me public displays of affection. Also good in bed. Turned out to be a liar and a cheat. He's married! I'm not going to get into the,"why me" pity party, I'm furious! You cannot fathom what I am going through so i'm going to post this so that all you cheaters out there know! Now, I'm not saying that all men are cheaters, or women for that matter, 'cause weve been known to do the same. Ok, here we go. First off, we are so happy that someone like you comes along and treats us like the Queens that we are, then you start to forget that we like going out, or that we actually like hearing your voice late at night when we are in bed... for that matter, we like you being here with us. Then it happens, the thoughts start to creep into our heads that perhaps we did something to piss you off slightly, this thought eventually turns into self doubt or in some cases that thought turns into suspicion about what YOU are doing during this time?!! I figured it out when you would not text back at certain times or meet me at my favorite public places.. You start to feel cocky that you have a wife and a lover... un beknownst to us. When we have gone through the entire range of emotions we figure you out. You are the scumb of the earth and I wish you Karma! Perhaps I'll eventually meet your wife and have an affair with her! So guys and dolls, I'm back on the market... Love, Elaine


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Posted on Tue, Dec 11, 2012 12:08

For Us...I have wives...who are my lovers...no mistresses...



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Posted on Tue, Mar 09, 2010 19:24

Lonesome, are you gettin to watch karma in action yet? Elaine


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Posted on Wed, Mar 03, 2010 03:48

yes Oz, you are right, it is more than a white lie. Thanks for the positive thoughts. Love, Elaine


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Posted on Tue, Mar 02, 2010 16:32

Call this more than a white lie Elaine and it is probably the worst one that you can get out there. Considering that there are many women out there that are also married and looking for fun I don't understand why these men cant link up with them instead of playing us single women? I am sorry that this is happened by you but I do think that with each step you are closer to finding that right one for you. Hugs xx


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Posted on Tue, Mar 02, 2010 03:53

One, you know it! Karma can be a powerful thang! Thank you for the kind thoughts! Love, Elaine


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Posted on Tue, Mar 02, 2010 03:50

Awww Butter, you have the kindest heart! I am thankful for the offer! Sniff, sniff.... Aw, who am I kidding! no big loss! He didn't deserve me! I'm on to my next victim, ummm, I mean fella. LOL Love, Elaine


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Posted on Mon, Mar 01, 2010 18:28

Thank you jjiggl, I could consider it weight loss too huh? LOL Elaine


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Posted on Sun, Feb 28, 2010 22:39

Hey some times Us guys are not the brightest Animals you can lead us to water, but you can't make us drink it unless we are ready to drink. Hey If I can't have you heart, At least I can have it close to me while you rest you head on my shoulder. I promise My shoulder is drip dry. Besides If one gets soggy,Ive got one more to use while the other drys out.lol Neal


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Posted on Sun, Feb 28, 2010 20:35

That is an awful thing to have happen, and I'm sorry it happened to you. You certainly don't deserve it, but I believe in Karma, too. So onward and upward ... and leave him to drowned in it.


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Posted on Sun, Feb 28, 2010 18:15

Sorry to hear about that. Just keep your head up and keep on being your funny, delightful self. Think of it as getting another arsehole out of the way so that you can meet the man that is really for you. Take care.


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Posted on Sun, Feb 28, 2010 07:03

Butter, thank you! Yeah a friend from back home was tellin me about the show and rodeo, I really do wish I could go! I do like watching those Wrangler jeans walk by! Tee Hee. I'm doing fine. I'm actually having some really special conversations with an old crush from back home, you know, the,"hey, I never knew you were interested" talk. Thanks for the shoulder offer though! You are a prince! Love, Elaine


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Posted on Sun, Feb 28, 2010 06:57

Island, no... it's not, but there is a popular country song about a cheater with the title, "White Liar", by Miranda Lambert . Love, Elaine


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Posted on Sun, Feb 28, 2010 06:54

Thanks Cloud, It's actually a lot less stress now. I can go out and have fun without "waiting" to see if he would show up! Elaine


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Posted on Sat, Feb 27, 2010 11:42

Thanks Tanzanite! Sorry to hear about your cheatin guy! You seem strong too.... You can use that line any time you want to. Elaine


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Posted on Sat, Feb 27, 2010 11:09

Really, really sorry to hear your news Babycakes. I had a very similar experience with someone on this site, and it's extremely hurtful. They say the best revenge is just to move on with your life, but that's hard too. Why do so many people not think things through, and not consider the hurt they're bound to cause?..... Be good to yourself. xxx


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Posted on Sat, Feb 27, 2010 02:01

Is cheating only considered a white lie these days???


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Posted on Fri, Feb 26, 2010 23:41

I was cheated on by my husband of almost 20 years so I can relate to the emotional turmoil. I like your statement "I wish you Karma" that is the perfect response!

You are a strong woman who obviously knows yourself. All the power to you girl!



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Posted on Fri, Feb 26, 2010 22:28

Elaine, I am sorry that the last cowboy you had corralled was a was a Scallywag and Yellow Belled Carpetbagger. Hey,the Houston Livestock show is now,may be It is roping time. Lots of Wrangler jeans tightly crammed with coyboys/ cowgirl butts Hey ,If you need to talk you know where to reach me.


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Posted on Fri, Feb 26, 2010 03:22

Thanks Nerdy, I am on to the next fella that tickles my fancy... Perhaps I should give up finding my good hearted bad boy biker, cowboy and just find a man that has a job,to support himself and his kids if he has them, and no wife! Elaine


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