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Posted on Mon, Nov 29, 2010 15:33

Hey, I hardly see any of the ones who used to be on here. Looks like quite a few left LF :(! I haven't posted on here for a long time. Hello to everyone! Just adding my two cents after such a long time. Having confidence in yourself is the one thing I've learned in the last 3 years that is so important. Everyone hears this I know, lol. But it really is true that to find and keep a relationship going you must know you are worth being treated with respect and sincerity. If you don't have confidence in yourself, you will accept much less than you deserve, you won't be positive, and you won't be as successful in getting and keeping a good relationship. It helps to write down in a private journal the first thing that comes to your mind when you think of who you are. Write all the things about yourself, be honest, lol. See what things you would like to improve, and work on them. Note the good things about yourself. Set goals for yourself and work on one at a time. Keep in mind you are truely unique. There is no one else in the world like you, we each are unique and cannot be replaced. I hope everyone here finds that your dreams for happiness comes true. Good Luck!


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Posted on Fri, Feb 11, 2011 01:04

Hi Amuse me, I understand on the burn out feeling. I am on tagged now. I love it because it is so active. It was not a good site a few years ago. But now it has been turned into an excellent social network that can serve as a great dating site as well as just making lots of friends world wide. I am addicted, lol. There is no blog...but there are many clubs and you can create your own club,,,also journaling. If you like...vist my profile sometime and say hi. Im annie P on there. Take care...don't give up. Azure :)


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Posted on Thu, Feb 10, 2011 22:17

Hi Azure :) I still come here from time to time and read new posts, if there are any. To be honest... I am just not interested in dating anymore, so I have quit the online activities and social scenes. My heart just isn't in it anymore... not sure if it's due to insecurities or a build-up of relationships-gone-wrong. You always did give good advice tho. Well, I just wanted to stop by and say hi, it's nice to see some of the old folks still hanging on to this place. :)

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In your rocking-chair, by your window dreaming, shall you long, alone. In your rocking-chair, by your window, shall you dream such happiness as you may never feel. –Theodore Dreiser

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Posted on Wed, Jan 19, 2011 18:25

Hi Sensualsicillian, Thats great your confidence and self esteem is lifted. Keep on loving yourself. Azure :)


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Posted on Mon, Jan 17, 2011 12:52

i never had really had much confidence until i met a man that showed me i was great just the way i am, i've got huge legs that i've always kept covered by long dresses and skirts, but i met this guy that just loves BIGG legs, lol and becouse of hom i show my legs now, i walk with pride and i dont care who looks or what they think, ive never felt so free in my life, its funny how something so simple can change you. he's helped me accept the way my legs are, and to him they are big and sexy and he wants to see them and touch them, so who am i to deny him that pleasure ? lol my family and friends have noticed a huge change in me, in my personality and my choice of clothes, ,confidence is a wonderful thing for sure,,,,,,, Sheri

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Posted on Sun, Dec 26, 2010 03:25

Hi Neal, Wow I guess this site is pretty much done for. How do they stay in business? Hi Smoosh.


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Posted on Sat, Dec 25, 2010 19:28

Hi nerdy guy - welcome back - glad yo hear your relationship is still going well after 8 months - blogs are diminishing for sure - I still like to visit and catch up but rarely post. Smoosh


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Posted on Fri, Dec 03, 2010 16:01

No It aint easy staying posative 100 % of the time. True some times things of life weigh greatly on our spirits. When it does reach out to you freinds and family. Some times they may have a totally different veiw of the sitituation.


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Posted on Fri, Dec 03, 2010 15:56

Having confidence in ones abilities, self worth and that the warrant love is a cornerstone of a good relationship.It is a Basic way of any Abuser(male or female ) to find some one with little or no confidence in their abilities and selfworth . Eventually they will socially and ecomomically isolate them from others ( who may support that persons posatiave sense of self worth ). The Abuser by doing so asures that the other person in the relationship will eventually be so dependant on the abuser for their sense of self worth that they will subvert their own personality to a great extent. Hense asuring the person will have a great diffaculty on seperating from the abusive relationship. I know it sounds corny but every time you go by a mirror you Stop and look in the glass and say to the person in the mirror "I Am some body ,I am worthy of love." The trick is not to get "Stockholm syndrome " mode of thinking when in a bad relationship.


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Posted on Thu, Dec 02, 2010 00:26

Hi Nerdy guy, lol, you don't look nerdy, lol. Thanks, I try to stay positive. I won't pretend it is always easy but I try my best. Yeah, I wonder where everyone has gone to. I know my friend butterball still gets on once in awhile I wonder if ozred is writing on here anymore. Anyway, nice to meet you nerdy guy! :)


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Posted on Mon, Nov 29, 2010 22:55

I am always positive. I'm ever the optimist and always see the glass half full. Unless it's that nasty tea that my grandma makes then I see it as half empty which would still be optimistic because "Oh well, I have to drink this nasty tea so I don't hurt nana's feelings but at least I'm halfway done!" I returned to this site after a 6 month hiatus and noticed that many of the people I was used to seeing here are gone or keeping a VERY low profile. It's good to see there's a fellow find-the-good-in-everything kind of person out there.


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