I don't know if you have ever noticed but it seems to me that when there are deep reaching life choices to be made new, mutually exclusive options are coming along.

Even when all of them are positive (and all feel good) the difficulty is in finding the right one and that is not clear until the choice is made and the way is gone.

I am in such a situation at the moment and I found that the best way to deal with this is a Zen-like approach of taking a step back and allowing things to unfold   more...

I don't know if you have ever noticed but it seems to me that when there are deep reaching life choices to be made new, mutually exclusive options are coming along.

Even when all of them are positive (and all feel good) the difficulty is in finding the right one and that is not clear until the choice is made and the way is gone.

I am in such a situation at the moment and I found that the best way to deal with this is a Zen-like approach of taking a step back and allowing things to unfold by themselves by being intuitive, relaxed and unconcerned. For in the end things usually become clear without much input anyway.

Initially it took some effort to keep cool but I am certain that this is the best thing to do to find the right way to go.

Why can't all the men like THIS be in the United States??? (umm.... and a little older, too!) Seems all the good ones are in antoher state or country.

personally, I rely on best 6 out of 10 coin tosses being tails before I make any major choices

definitely let nature take its course..time will tell all..

WAIT A MINUTE...??? ART VANDELAY... ?? OKAY A LITTLE SOMETHING IN COMMON HERE I BELIEVE THAT IS FROM SEINFELD? RIGHT?

definitely let nature take its course..time will tell all..

i can agree with that