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Posted on Thu, Oct 19, 2006 09:33

I am just curious, you know. I know why the men that I have loved in the past loved me back, in the physical as well as emotional sense. I am not ashamed of my body - droopy all - nor am I too bashful to take a steamy shower with a lover. I can look in a mirror standing nude before it and know that I am jelly and beautiful. I am just curious as to how many men out there who claim to be BBW Admirers are actually physically attracted to us. After all, we are in a day and age where tight, sinew formed bodies are the preferred sexual advertisement. I have never really asked anyone because I have always been comfortable with my body, even when I was close to weighing 400lbs. I never questioned why someone was attracted to me. My sister's battle within herself and her husbands tireless effort to convince her she is sexy to him has me pondering and asking questions. whitetigger, I understand what you are saying, but once we realize that love and lust are seperate needs, seperate feelings, and that as a woman I want my lover to not only love me but lust FOR me. We need to recognize that looks do indeed matter, at least somewhat. One man's whiskey is another man's wine. Diamond is right though, you are very sweet. ;) ~J


In your rocking-chair, by your window dreaming, shall you long, alone. In your rocking-chair, by your window, shall you dream such happiness as you may never feel. –Theodore Dreiser

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Posted on Tue, Oct 17, 2006 20:15

I just had to say that is the nicest thing I have ever read to describe a bbw....


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Posted on Mon, Oct 16, 2006 20:14

well as for your sister like you said that is another subject. personally i look for a woman from my heart looks are nice but looks are not going to carry a relationship i am not sure how to explain the attraction is but to say they are softer,sweeter,caring and more loving and understanding i hope i helped a little lol you have a great day and take care


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