When I was younger my mother had a boyfriend who was usually verbally and physically abusive to her. A friend of mine had the same type of a relationship, It gotten to the point he was beating her inside of a moving car and pulling her hair that she fought back and jump out of the car while it was moving at 60 miles per hour. and she was hospitalized because she felt that if she stayed in that car he would have killed her. Numerous of women told me how they were married to romeos and prince charmings only to find out in the middle of the relationship or until after marriage they became Freddy Creugger the worst nightmare. Recently I watch a snipplet of the Tyra Banks' show about the same topic. Can anyone tell me if you can spot signs before it can get to the point of being abusive?
I see women all the time who constantly tear each other down and stab each other in the back for no reason. One particular lady I know can't wait to pick someone a part. I know this is probaly her candor but why don't we support each other, isn't it hard enough with expectations that society put on women to be a size 6 or less. I know another woman(who is thin) I work with who is quickly to make fun of other full-figure woman she say things like,"she doesn't need to eat that or "She needs to walk to loose some weight and the comments go on and on. This girl consider herself my friend and when I confront her about it she insist she not refering to me. Yeah right, You know I know better but anyway, No one is not perfect.if you see a women who is a size 26 wearing something that is consider not appropriate we sometimes are quick to make fun of her and say she needs to find something else to wear. we feel that its horrible to look at. Maybe she is confident in what she gotten on. It may not be appealing to us but can she have her confidence in what she has on without other women being critical. isn't all women are beautiful regardless of the shape,size or color. What do you think?
I've worked with females on my jobs that meet men in clubs that could be prospective men of interest. Their invite these men back to their place and have all type of sex with these men. Moreover, just reading blogs on this site about having sex on the 1st and 2nd date really blow me away. what ever happen to meeting Mr. right and getting to know him as a person. Then maybe when the time is right maybe taking it a step farther or maybe marriage. Maybe I'm old-fashion and traditional. but I think it cut down on a lot of pain and suffering in the end. What do you think? I also want to add that the songs we listen to and the Television show we watch indicates that it's ok to go the mile on the 1st and 2nd or 3rd date . it is a song out now that's very suggestive By an artist by the name of T-pain he's telling this woman he trying to get some of her *@#$* Can you be any more direct about what you want???
I was listening to a talk radio station today and the topic was interracial dating. Someone say they would date outside their race and some is against it. I know this is a toughy subject what's you're take on this topic? for me it would be hard because I don't like the problems that goes along with it but if someone else dates outside their race I cool with it. I think every race has beauty in it.