Misadventures in dating
I can't believe its over a year and a half since I wrote my blog.
Again, I let my membership lapse because I was discouraged with the quality of the profiles that were posted from my area. Now that I've upgraded again to a gold
its still not good because the site and my computer are just not seeing eye to eye. I can't even wink at the guys who do look interesting.
I'm still single. Must be too fussy. I've had some nice dates from this and other sites but mostly they show me the kind of man that I don't want.
I don't want to even think about what it would be like to go out with a guy who posts a picture of himself in his bathrobe on his profile. ewww ! HOT ROD FOR U..not happening ever! Married, looking for discrete encounters..jerks totally.
I went out a couple times with a man who had a really nice, friendly picture, sounded like we had similar values.. Spiritual but not religious..went to a movie
and would you believe it..
he takes my hand in the dark, and places it on a fully exposed and hot piece of flesh ewww. Amazingly I didn't walk out..but all conversation and interaction ended. Afterwards "are you mad? why are you upset" When I got home I emailed the man and told him how inappropriate his behavior was. We made contact again over a year later ( doesn't everyone deserve a second chance)..and this time went to a comedy club..not dark like a movie theatre..guess what..same thing. I don't want to paw anyone in public. I'd already paid for the entertainment so again didn't leave him sitting there but stayed and completely enjoyed the performance. He pouted through the whole evening and then said how could I be so frigid and puritanical and yet laugh at that racy humor. I'm neither frigid or puritanical. I just think there's a time and place for everything.
Went out with another man who started planning our future life together on our first date..I was exactly what he was looking for..duh..I wasn't supposed to have any say in these big decisions.
Sigh.. I don't know who I'm looking for..a pleasant, funny man..presentable but not that slim and fit, sorry. I like comfortable cuddly men. I'm not Barbie and I don't want Ken. I don't want someone who wants to take over my life and start telling me everything that I should and shouldn't do. I'm pretty independent and happy with life the way it is, except I'm missing cuddles, hugs and good healthy sex in a monagamous relationship. Nice intelligent conversation would be good too.
Well that's all my musings for today..catch you later.
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