I met someone on here. I've been around enough to know to be cautious, so I was. I also noticed some things I consider "flags." He only called me when he was on the road from his car, never from home. He suggested it would be better if he called me rather than have me call him since he has free long distance. Those are two dead giveaways that scream to me ... not single! so I did some of my own checking and, long story short, he's very married, lives with his wife, just looking for a good time I guess. I don't know. I know there must be decent men out there, but I've had way too many married men lying about being single. At least this time I found out BEFORE I got emotionally or physically involved. I'm thinking I'll just pull my ad, but I guess hope springs eternal. Please tell me they're not all lying cheats!!