How can it be so hard to find men
who get past the weight and see
the wealth of what is there in
us as people. It saddens me that
we can be separated out like this.
Most of us have had to become even better people because of the obstacles others have thrown at us due to the weight. It will
either make or break you!
I can't tell you how many times
people have asked if I'm seeing
anyone and whether I am or am not
they will look me up and down as if to say "noone would want her"
The community I live in has alot
of unfaithfulness, partying and the highest divorce rate in the
Alot of the men here are very
shallow and it has done a number
on how we view ourselves. It
doesn't just go one way though,
as the thin women are just as
used and then tossed aside.
From where I sit, it seems to good to be true that there are really men out there that can love us.
I could use some words of encouragement.