How can it be so hard to find men who get past the weight and see the wealth of what is there in us as people. It saddens me that we can be separated out like this.
Most of us have had to become even better people because of the obstacles others have thrown at us due to the weight. It will either make or break you! I can't tell you how many times people have asked if I'm seeing anyone and whether I am or am not they will look me up and down as if to say "noone would want her"
The community I live in has alot of unfaithfulness, partying and the highest divorce rate in the U.S.
Alot of the men here are very shallow and it has done a number on how we view ourselves. It doesn't just go one way though, as the thin women are just as used and then tossed aside.
From where I sit, it seems to good to be true that there are really men out there that can love us.