Making the first move has always been a problem for me. Most of the girls I dated asked me out, but I remember asking one girl out in high school, which doesn't mean much since High School is a bunch of balogne. I am a self confident person, but when it comes to asking a girl out I lose all confidence in myself. I'll notice a girl looking at me and the first thing that comes to my mind is.. "Do I have toothpaste mouth?" and I immediately wipe my mouth and move on, then later kick myself and tell myself "Next time just do it" and what happens next time? More wiping not enough talking. It is funny cause the worst that can happen is rejection, which in essence isn't that bad. It's quick painless and once it is done you move on, but for some reason the thought of rejection just freezes me each time. Oh well I guess I will work it out one day.