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IS LOVE PAINFUL??
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11/15/08
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I've been told recently that love is not painful, it feels incredible. The pain and hurt we feel doesn't come from love, it comes from our doubts, fears, anxiety, perceived rejections, broken trusts, anger, jealousy, envy, etc.
So why do we as a culture lump all those other feelings in with love?
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What type of women do men really desire?
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06/03/07
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Figuring out what men really desire is never easy, since like women, men come in different variations.
Regardless of what category a man falls in, there are basic standards that every man is looking for in a woman. Women all want to be an object of desire- the kind that men talk
about, dream about and long to be with. We all want to be chased and admired by the opposite sex and at the same time to be appreciated, respected and admired for our existence, appearance, personality and accomplishments.
So what if today's women are more independent and career oriented, does not mean that we or for that matter men should forget our feminine roots. Women are delicate creatures after all- we can be and are sweet and giving and it is important for a man to see these qualities in a woman - but do they?
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Sexual Fantasies .. we all have them!
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06/03/07
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Fantasies are daydreams. Imaginary visions. Whimsical speculations. Wishful thinking. Everybody fantasises
at some level.
Therefore, is it safe to say that fantasy is a fundamental part of human nature.
There's a huge range of personal taste in sexual fantasy, just as there is in everything else. But many people feel
uncomfortable with their own fantasies, fearing they're somehow weird if they're turned on by things that are unacceptable to others.
Some people worry that fantasising about someone other than their partner is an act of betrayal, revealing either
a desire to be unfaithful or that they are longer turned on by their partner alone.
In fact, this is very rarely the case. Evidence suggests that those who fantasise the most are in happy, loving, trusting relationships. It's in this kind of context that the mind explores places the body has no intention of visiting.
So, is sexual fantasy a useful way to enhance relationships and build intimacy or the last resort of the lonely and desperate?
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Can friends become lovers????
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05/30/07
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What can I say .. I'm on a roll tonight!
We all have people we lovingly refer to as friends. People who will stand by our side through thick and thin. People who will readily offer a shoulder to cry on and sound words of comfort and advice at any time. No strings attached, no matter what.
Yet, it's funny how these same qualities present in a friendship, many of us yearn for in a romantic relationship. To be friends and lovers is the ultimate combination.
But can the two really become one, and if so, at what point?
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